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    1. Showing they are dumb (believing conspiracy theories, Maga, repeating nonsense)

    2. Being racist, judgy, overall nasty with people

    3. Being nasty to animals

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    Being conservative, being rude and impatient, not understanding that people are human and sometimes just make errors.

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    Compliments me by insulting everybody else.

    “It’s so cool that you X. Everybody not in the room sucks because they don’t do X”

    Just leave that second sentence off please.

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    Lack of interest, like they’re just waiting their turn to talk about what they want to talk about and not actually listening to me.

    The other big one off the top of my head is not liking any animals. I get most people eat them, but if you straight up don’t like anyone else you’re kinda scary. No thank you.

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    changing and expecting people to accept that change unconditionally.

    diametrically disagreeing with your partner on some important issue of your relationship and only mentioning it way after things got serious.

    bad hygiene (for olodumarè’s sake, bathe daily, and if possible brush your teeth at least twice a day).

    as mentioned before, being a jerk towards service providers and elderly without reason, and towards kids in general.

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      bad hygiene (for olodumarè’s sake, bathe daily, and if possible brush your teeth at least twice a day).

      I know this is popular in this thread, but how to achieve that? I shower 0-3 a day, with 0 being in days waiting for the washing machine for I have showered too much, and have no clothes remaining.

      It seems no matter what I do, someone thinks I accidentally opened a shower on myself by how sweaty wet my underwear is, then proceeds to tell me I smell awful and banishes me from society back to my computer, which is what I would be doing anyway, also that person is the only one that complains and they (singular) can’t handle heat at all.

      I just checked and the temperature goes up to 42*, I don’t know how hot that is, since I never look at weather, if it’s hot I bear with it, if it’s cold I get sick for 3 days bear with it.

      Also I only wear winter-y jackets for some reason (A joke that went too far that’s been lasting for 3 years?), people underestimate how good they are at shading, and they come with a built-in hat, and protect your body better than any T-shirt ever could.

      Wait did I just answer my own question?

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        in a sense you did, but some people do sweat too much, beyond what would be reasonable given environmental factors. it’s called hyperhidrosis and can be treated, and you could even find another underlying condition that may cause it, instead of simply bad regulation of the sweat glands or nerves that control them. go check a doctor, don’t suffer for no reason.

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          I think it’s just because I can’t resist running at full speed whenever I get the chance.

  • spittingimage@lemmy.world
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    Talking over the top of me. If what you have to say is so much more interesting that what I was already saying, maybe you should be saying it to a paying audience somewhere else.

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      My interests are more about the actual engineering involved, like it’s crazy how we can throw a piece of metal kilometres away to within a metre. And there’s something satisfying about how they fit together. But yeah I wouldn’t trust anyone with guns.

  • ssm@lemmy.sdf.org
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    Short list of obvious ones:

    • Haven’t binge watched all of skibidi toilet in one sitting
    • Uses Windows MacOS iOS or Android
    • Wipes after shitting / No shitbucket
    • Thinks git is github
    • Haven’t memorized all of the ANSI X3.159-1989 C standard
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      iOS or Android

      Soo, what then? Are Windows phones still a thing? Even Copperhead or Lineage are Android forks. Based on my PinePhone that one’s not really ready for primetime.

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        Even if they were. Windows is on the list of turnoff OS. Just use a flip phone for calls and a raspberry pi with the raspberry screen for scrolling through lemmy. Now i am imagining someone writing an essay in a Starbucks with a raspberry a propped up screen an a little keyboard.

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        Self compiled Linux distribution for a phone you soldered together yourself - what else?

        I hate that you people are even allowed on the internet.

        • Send from a PDP11- </S>
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    People who this is targeted at and don’t get it when you explain it.

    Unless you have investigated a problem, you will be deprived of the right to speak on it. Isn’t that too harsh? Not in the least. When you have not probed into a problem, into the present facts and its past history, and know nothing of its essentials, whatever you say about it will undoubtedly be nonsense. Talking nonsense solves no problems, as everyone knows, so why is it unjust to deprive you of the right to speak? Quite a few comrades always keep their eyes shut and talk nonsense, and for a Communist that is disgraceful. How can a Communist keep his eyes shut and talk nonsense?

    It won’t do!

    It won’t do!

    You must investigate!

    You must not talk nonsense!

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    Having a shitty attitude about anything.

    It just seems like you’re not able to enjoy things because you’re just a sour person.

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      I must be misunderstanding this one. That sounds like you want a person that buries their feelings and pretends to be joyful all the time. It’s perfectly human to have a bad day and on occasion be a little shitty.

      If you’re speaking of them being shitty most of the time about most things then I can see your point.

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        Why would I be talking about the first one? Toxic positivity is complete and utter bullshit, and I’m tired of people telling me I can’t complain about other people for whatever reason.

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    So many things.

    • queer phobic. I’m not queer but many of my friends are. I don’t need that negativity in my life.
    • smoker. Maybe a pass if they are actively trying to quit. Maybe. Most active smokers I’ve known have kind of been assholes about it, though.
    • littering. Sometimes combined with the above when smokers throw their butts on the ground
    • being a jerk about people having healthy hobbies. Like, just let someone enjoy some video games or bird watching or whatever. I can’t with people who are like “omg that’s so childish you still [play games/read fiction/go to the zoo/whatever]?”.
    • being anti-consent. I’ve met a few women who are like “just do stuff and I’ll tell you if I don’t like it” and I’m like lady there’s some “stuff” that can be done that by the time it’s happening , the damage is done. Let’s just have a conversation about what we like and what our boundaries are.
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        it’s “childish” to enjoy fun things like the zoo, according to some incomprehensibly boring and immature people.

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          This is so many people on IRC it’s not even funny.

          Especially most libera mods. Their god complexes can be seen from space, they’re often highly unreasonable, hold decades long grudges and have a hair trigger for anyone even remotely trying to be funny.

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      smoking

      anti-consent

      Can’t help but feel a “my body my choice, your body my choice” vibe from this

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        It’s fine to not be into whatever you want. If I said I didn’t find Asians attractive, that wouldn’t make me a racist. (I do, for the record, same as I’m into boys of every other nationality, but if I didn’t it would still be a personal preference and no one’s business but my own.)

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          You also literally can’t play videogames without polluting others, since some of the electricity is still generated by burning coal. You also literally can’t do any other thing either probably, since electricity is used in creating almost everything, or at least some other pollution.

          I think if someone tries to make sure not to smoke near unknown people or people that don’t want it, they’re acceptable in my book.

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            These people are under the impression that secondhand smoke is sentient and immediately finds the nearest non-smokers lungs to pollute. I wouldn’t expect logic to get through to them.

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          I just think it’s odd that you immediately associate smoking with being an asshole - unless they’re quitting. Like you make it very clear that personal agency is important to you - but smoking makes you a piece of shit.

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            i don’t think being a smoker necessarily makes you an a*shole, but surely makes other people live with the smell and the taste of tobacco. and you can’t force people to do that.

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              I make it a point to not discuss things like this when people aren’t thinking clearly.

              When you smoke a cigarette the smoke doesn’t automatically find the nearest non-smokers lungs in order to harm them. The smoke settles, and there are more than enough places far enough away from people to smoke at.

              If you’re worried about secondhand smoke harming you in any context outside of smoking indoors - I’m sorry but you just aren’t thinking clearly.

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            Smoking is bad for the smoker and everyone around them. If you’re not even trying to stop, you are kind of a piece of shit.

            I don’t see what that has to do with asking for consent to touch someone’s butt.

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      littering.

      I was going out with this guy I really liked. Probably 3rd or 4th date. We decided to take a drive, and went to a local grist mill. Walked around, had a nice time. Took the scenic route home on this road that ran along a pristine Tennessee Creek. He was drinking a Gatorade or something, and when he finished it, rolled down the window and chucked the bottle out into the creek.

      I stopped the car, made him go pick it up (or I wasn’t going to drive him the 20+ miles home), and never called him again. Fuck. That. Behavior.