Haven’t been able to find one I’m confident about. Seems like they’ll all either ban me or have no reach/no momentum. Is it worth continuing to try this one, like they might actually not ban me? Is there a different one I should be trying instead?
Should I just immediately block everyone that replies in bad faith and tell them to try me on nostr so I’m not stopping them from talking to me but I also can’t get “banned for insults” ?


That is incorrect. Maybe I’m too good for Lemmy and they’re too shitty for Lemmy, but that doesn’t make us the same. You are a bad person for pretending there is no appropriate use of insults, and judging others over it - especially since you’re apparently into insulting people yourself.
But what sucks is that I might get banned for how “insulting” this is to say, while your much more insulting reply to prompt my insult stays unchallenged.