I’m 15 weeks and 1 day pregnant today. I’m also young (18), so this wasn’t planned or expected. When my boyfriend’s parents found out, they asked for a paternity test. On my parents’ advice, I agreed to it. Even though I have nothing to hide, it still felt humiliating.
It implies the person she said was the father might not be the father, which can certainly feel insulting.
A reasonable request doesn’t mean it won’t feel insulting.
Feelings and reality often don’t align. I’m not saying it can’t feel that way. I’m saying if you look at the reality (detailed in other comments here) it’s really not