Yeah okay but if a trans woman says “I like being a loving wife” and you say “You’re not a wife”, you’re not actually liberating her. Even if the social category of “wife” is damaging to those it’s forced onto, you can’t repair that damage by forcibly taking it away from trans people.
I’m not saying that, I’m saying “tradwife” isn’t a gender identity. It can a be a valid part of someone’s identity and one traditionally associated with being a woman. it’s just a chosen aspect of their identity. Gender isn’t a choice and tying it to professions and societal expectations isn’t healthy.
I didn’t say tradwife, I said wife. Wife is a gender identity, and it’s also a social role. Things can be both and you can’t take them away from people who want them.
We’re clearly not going to come to any meaningful consensus. So I don’t think continuing to argue is in either of our interests. I would always refer to terms like wife and husband as an expression of gender identity rather than the gender identity itself. But if you define things differently that’s fine. My education is in neuroscience so I think of gender as being hard wired into our brains and universal across cultures. Any chosen labels I would regard as expressions of gender rather than Inherently part of it. And something I’ll gladly leave to psychologists and anthropologists.
The obvious sensitive period for the development of gender identity is the round of synaptic pruning around 18 months after birth. Gender is way too complex and malleable to be structured by proliferation and migration. It’s structured by synaptic pruning, which mostly occurs after birth.
Interesting, everything I’ve read has indicated that it’s largely set due to testosterone concentration prior to the development of the gonads in utero. I’d be interested to read some of the research about the association with synaptic pruning though, if you have a couple of links? It makes sense that children would begin recognising it then, because it’s about that time they start developing a concept of self.
Yeah okay but if a trans woman says “I like being a loving wife” and you say “You’re not a wife”, you’re not actually liberating her. Even if the social category of “wife” is damaging to those it’s forced onto, you can’t repair that damage by forcibly taking it away from trans people.
I’m not saying that, I’m saying “tradwife” isn’t a gender identity. It can a be a valid part of someone’s identity and one traditionally associated with being a woman. it’s just a chosen aspect of their identity. Gender isn’t a choice and tying it to professions and societal expectations isn’t healthy.
I didn’t say tradwife, I said wife. Wife is a gender identity, and it’s also a social role. Things can be both and you can’t take them away from people who want them.
We’re clearly not going to come to any meaningful consensus. So I don’t think continuing to argue is in either of our interests. I would always refer to terms like wife and husband as an expression of gender identity rather than the gender identity itself. But if you define things differently that’s fine. My education is in neuroscience so I think of gender as being hard wired into our brains and universal across cultures. Any chosen labels I would regard as expressions of gender rather than Inherently part of it. And something I’ll gladly leave to psychologists and anthropologists.
The obvious sensitive period for the development of gender identity is the round of synaptic pruning around 18 months after birth. Gender is way too complex and malleable to be structured by proliferation and migration. It’s structured by synaptic pruning, which mostly occurs after birth.
Interesting, everything I’ve read has indicated that it’s largely set due to testosterone concentration prior to the development of the gonads in utero. I’d be interested to read some of the research about the association with synaptic pruning though, if you have a couple of links? It makes sense that children would begin recognising it then, because it’s about that time they start developing a concept of self.