Not sure where you’re heading with this question, but certainly at least a few.

At least you said “women” instead of “females” which is how these posts usually go.

No. We have a strict vetting process.

Lemmy security and moderation features aren’t the best. It’s better to keep this info personal or it may lead to being on some creep list of potential victims. ( Not referring to OP)

Uesr name checks out.

Women aren’t real silly