Seriously I hate that. I always fantasize about having sex with very attractive women. It really grinds my fuck gears because I know that I will be a virgin forever because prostitution is illegal in Canada. So I unfortunately can not pay a very attractive 18 year old woman to have sex with me. I really wish that I was Asexual so that I could be happy with myself being a virgin forever.

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    You can literally find sex workers anywhere you are. I assume you can go online and find some. There’s always the yellow pages as well haha.

    But yeah, maybe work on your views. If you don’t work on the underlying problem, you’re probably not going to feel any better. Could probably seek a therapist via a doctor’s referral since you’re in Canada.

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      Those sex workers that are online could be cops uncover so I don’t want to risk that because I don’t want to go to jail.

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        Yes they’re actually all police trying to entrap you. Did you think about the latter part of my post? Also it’s kinda weird mentioning 18 year olds (I Guess unless you’re 18ish), if not, probably another thing to address with a professional.

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          I am a old man and I personally do not think it’s morally wrong for me pay a 18 year old woman to have sex with me because me and her are both consenting adults. So what me and her are doing is completely harmless.

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            Agreed. But focusing on that specific aspect comes off pretty creepy.

            For the last time, have you considered the latter part of any of my replies? Honestly, it seems like some sort of underlying issue that you need to work through (coming from a random person on the Internet who has no education in psychological issues).

            But it’s something to consider. Being in Canada, you have much more access to it than people in many other countries.

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    In my experience, sex is like board games. It’s fun while you’re doing it, but the pleasure is finished soon enough. It’s not a life-changing event. If you don’t get to play board-games very often, or never before, or you just don’t enjoy it - that does not define you.

    I know you’re just venting rather than looking for answers, but sex isn’t as important as many people seem to think.

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      The problem is since I am a virgin. I will never know if having sex is enjoyable or not.

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    Your issue is not that you are a virgin, it’s that you are a loser. Just get a fucking passport and go to Las Vegas or Reno and punch your ticket. You live right above these cities and there is a lot to do there for non sex fun. But noooooooo you can’t figure out how to buy an airplane ticket and reserve a hotel room. There is something called online travel websites. Try those and stop whining on the internet. Jesus….

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      The reason why I don’t want to get married is because. All I want to do in life is lift weights, play video games and have sex with women everyday.

      I do not want to go on any dates with women and I do not want a woman to live with me in my house. Because I do not want anyone in general coming to my house.

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    Sex doesn’t need to define you, neither does being a virgin.

    Sex is part of a healthy life but putting it on a pedestal and letting it impact your image of yourself will only lead to toxicity.

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      The only reason why I’m putting sex on a pedestal is because I can’t stop thinking about it. That’s why I really wish I was Asexual so that wouldn’t think about sex anymore.

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        You literally said you wanna bang beautiful 18 year girls lmao. Girls have pussies. You’re putting the pussy on a pedestal bro.

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          Okay well when you put like that then I guess you’re right but I am not simping for beautiful 18 year old women because I don’t have any interest at all in being a romantic relationship with them. I just want to bang them.

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            Yea, I fully understand that. Lol. Putting the pussy on a pedestal simply means that you’re putting too much self worth into sex. Doesn’t matter if you’re looking for romance or just sex itself.

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      But the problem is I have no interest at all in being in a romantic relationship with women. All I want to do is pay a multiple attractive women to have sex with me. But unfortunately prostitution is illegal in Canada so unfortunately I will be a virgin forever.

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        Fun fact: just because something is illegal doesn’t mean it’s impossible. Also, I know hookup culture has changed a lot in the decade and a half since I was your age but it’s still possible to have sex at not be in a relationship

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          The problem is I’m a ugly old man so unfortunately no very attractive woman is ever going to have sex with me just for the fun of it.

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            Ig I just assumed you were younger. Regardless, appearance is 50% something you can actually control. Just learn to dress well and how to hold a conversation

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          Fun fact: just because something is illegal doesn’t mean it’s impossible.

          I’d have definitely had a lot less fun if I’d steered clear if anything that breaks the law.

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        There are other countries than canada. But that probably isn’t a possibolity for you, with your can’t-do-attitude.

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          No you’re wrong. The title will be sad old virgin man getting pegging by multiple teen girls.

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    Adding on to what other said (it’s not that big a deal): Just because prostitution is illegal does not mean you cant pay for a sexworker, it just makes it slightly harder to find. Making a porno is often legal, so just have a camera somewhere on a tripod and BOOM, welcome to the film industry ☺️. My local laws permit sexwork, and I don’t think it is amoral to sell sex, so if you don’t too and you are this fixated on it, ask around a bit!

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      I don’t want to make a porno though. All I want to do is pay a very attractive woman to have sex with me just once. So that I’m no longer a virgin anymore. Because I believe that once I have sex. I will no longer care about it anymore.

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        “Software is like sex: it’s better when it’s free” - Linus Torvalds.
        “If you do have to pay for it, go to a reputable supplier and make sure it is free from infection.” - Addition by some redditor.

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          No woman will ever have sex with me for free because I’m a ugly old man who is also a manlet.

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            Your mental outlook is uglier than your body, guaranteed. I’ve seen plenty of short kings who aren’t manly pull in pussy like it’s nothing, and chads drier than a desert all based on personality.

            Fix your world view and you’ll see your luck change. Or keep things how it is and keep on being unhappy about it, I’m not your dad.