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  • squid_slime@lemm.ee
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    6 months ago

    I’m a guy.

    Question: on several intimate occasions with more than a few partners I have notice partners will cup my pecks…

    It makes me feel self-conscious and would like to know why some of you cup pecks? 🫠

      • Croquette@sh.itjust.works
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        6 months ago

        It took me a long time to appreciate the touch of my partner (years).

        Now she could cup my belly fat and I would appreciate it. And I crave her touch.

        And just like you said, in the heat of the moment, I grab whatever is there and try to make it feel good.

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      6 months ago

      Maybe they’re bi? Maybe they think guys like it too? I feel the same way about women who go after nipples. That does literally nothing for me.

      • Kattiydid@slrpnk.net
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        6 months ago

        To be fair, as a woman, my partner playing with my nipples does nothing for me either. They’re just about as sensitive as fondling my tummy would be, or my outer elbow. can you imagine someone playing with your belly pudge to feel particularly arousing? I just kinda figure it’s not for me. Since guys just love touching boobs so much, I just kinda let em play. They are fun to squish around I guess, like jello. I may very well be in the minority in this, it is just my personal experience. Actually, funnily enough, the inner elbow is more sensitive to me than my boobs are. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

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          6 months ago

          can you imagine someone playing with your belly pudge to feel particularly arousing?

          You say that as if that isn’t a common kink.

        • WideEyedStupid@lemmy.world
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          6 months ago

          Maybe in a minority, but definitely not alone. I agree completely. Does absolutely nothing for me when someone touches my breasts, like at all. They may as well just been touching my back or my arm. Nothing erotic about it. But you know, it’s not like it’s particularly unpleasant either, so I guess, who cares? At least they like it. :p Well, as long as they’re not trying to actually pinch or bite my nipples because that’s very uncomfortable, and at certain points during my cycle it’s downright painful.

    • Vanth@reddthat.com
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      6 months ago

      Pecs were an erogenous zone for a guy I dated for a while. He had a really nice chest. He enjoyed it, I enjoyed it. I’ll feel up a guy’s pecs when the situation is appropriate, but move on if it doesn’t seem to do anything for them and certainly if they ask me to move on.