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Cake day: December 29th, 2023

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  • allow me to sum up interpersonal relationships between all 8 billion people in one sentence:
    you can’t

    but, in a nutshell… physical attraction is usually important, so is romance… usually a commitment to this person in terms of time and future plans where they become more like family (and maybe eventually actually family if you have kids)

    there’s such a crazy spectrum of the ways in which people could get along and consider themselves “in a relationship”.
    every rule or tendency is constantly broken, it escapes definition.
    in general, it begins with attraction and flirting, or it’s cemented as a friendship…
    and, poetically, i’d say it’s a relationship when they start to see themselves as an entity, and of course others will see them like that too… a sort of hive-mind develops…
    sorta like when celebrity couples get a combo nickname…


  • why would you expect something like that??

    although all forms of prejudice and hatred are terrible, the online anti-fat hate just bugs so much.
    it’s so common, accepted, and arbitrary
    i mean, at least with racism there’s some kind of stupid “reasoning” behind it. some notion that “others” are a threat, and tribal nonsense.
    but just hating on overweight people is so… pointless…
    anyways, i expect the banning of r/fatpeoplehate and the like has sent some troglodytes over here.
    but, if the instance doesn’t do something, theyll get defederated











  • last time i took a shower at a homeless shelter:
    you have to hand all your stuff to a guy at a window, he puts it in a bag, then you go to a medium sized room with several shower heads spraying towards the middle…
    so you don’t just get your shower, you get the water bouncing off a dozen naked homeless guys…
    the water is a tepid, narrow, painful jet…
    i caught scabies and athletes foot…

    i’ve taken one other one at a shelter in another city and state and it was identical…

    gym is way better, otherwise i’d rather take a bird bath in a random bathroom sink…