I find both men and women attractive in their own ways, but I could never see myself dating a woman. I want a boyfriend. I don’t look at romance games or stories where the protagonist romances a girl either because it’s not relatable to me. Only men. Do I just prefer men or am I just straight?
What’s the purpose of the label? Usually it’s to find mates of the appropriate gender. If you’re not going to date women, why do you want the label?
To be fair there is an element of just understanding your own identity to finding a label that resonates with you. Even if they don’t want to date a woman, understanding their own identity and feelings is still a worthwhile endeavor.
You don’t have to date both genders to be bi. I don’t see myself dating a man, but man… I’ll do other things to them.