I’ve found dating apps to be an absolute minefield, regularly getting my profile pictures (very tame and appropriate pictures) reported on HER for example, presumably by transphobes, before I left it.

Beyond that, I feel invisible on the more mainstream apps because I’m ethically nonmonogamous and I suppose that understandably shrinks my dating pool even further.

Does anyone have any app/site suggestions for an ENM lady who is tired of having to fight for my right to exist as a gay woman on a dating app?

  • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgOP
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    5 days ago

    Thank you! I have tried grindr and I was not enjoying the vibes at all. I’m only really into fems which I should have put in the OP so I think scruff may be a bad fit too. I’ll give recon a look, just for curiosity’s sake. Feeld, too!