I’ve had people tell me that this is (their words, not mine): “mental illness”

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    14 hours ago

    Many times throughout my life, what would seem like a reasonably easy question to answer has changed dramatically.

    30 years ago you could look at data collection and go there’s no way that they could store a meaningful amount of data about everyone.

    20 years ago you could look at data collection and go there’s no way they could have the contents of every phone call It’s just targeted it’s not a big deal

    We are the point now, where everything you ever wrote or said could be thrown into a model with such unimaginable levels of lossy compression that they could simply ask it if you are the kind of person who is into whatever the future administration deems as unacceptable and deny you access to things. All you need is a fascist regime or a dictatorship installed and all of a sudden anything you ever did can be used as grounds to lock you up.

    On a governmental budget it wouldn’t even be that expensive and we’re just at the beginning of this.

    We have seen that governments can change quickly, We know the data collection is affordable and can be permanent.

    Certainly some people privacy-minded to the point of compulsion. But I can’t say that anyone is wrong to seek extreme levels of privacy based on trends and capabilities.

    They leave your cell phone at home and make sure somebody opens your apps and uses them people aren’t anywhere near as crazy as they used to sound

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    14 hours ago

    I must be one of those. This shit is not okay, yall. Whole psychological profiles, humiliation tactics, and dystopian forms of control are right around the corner. Why would they keep Epstein alive when Palantir automated the job of the blackmail broker?

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    14 hours ago

    Yes.

    Like any interest, people get so far removed from the original point, it becomes about something new.

    Like cast iron. People go from not really knowing about it to learning how to cook with it, to learning how to do basic maintenance. About 20% of people go completely off the rails, and they start buffing and polishing them like they are fabergé eggs, and joining cast iron groups.

    Privacy is the same. Learn the basics, follow the basics, relax and get over yourself.

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    16 hours ago

    You really do have to obsess if you take this seriously. It really isn’t feasible for most people to devote kind of time and effort that I do on this stuff. I usually describe it as a kind of hobby, and I try to limit my advice to address specific concerns or threat models.

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    19 hours ago

    Yep, I made the mistake of telling my family I care about my privacy. The amount of times I’ve been told the nothing to hide argument is stupid.

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      16 hours ago

      Tell them to leave their front door unlocked. They should have no problem doing that, and if they do, call the police on them because it means they’re hiding illegal activity in their home. /s

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      18 hours ago

      I started asking people who put that forward if they would give me their cellular phone unlocked for a hour. After all they have nothing to hide, right?

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    20 hours ago

    Yes, privacy is very important, but I’ve seen also a lot of tin foil hats arround here which don’t know really what is worth to protect and what only make browsing slower and more difficult. PEBCAK

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    22 hours ago

    I have been thinking about this a lot recently. I live a life where OPSEC is relevant. Its something that I have had to consider always, and has been for 2 decades. Even so, I wasn’t as concerned this whole time as I am these days. The fact is that technology is making it such that its no longer “im not a person of interest they wont spend resources on me” because data crunching is happening to such an extreme, on such a grand scale, that person of interest doesn’t even matter. Do you exist, yes. Do you have a digital foot print, yes you do. Even if you dont do a lot online. Your metrics are being captured and being inferenced, and systems are using predictive analysis to determine what you “may” do in a given situation. Depending on who controls those systems they may decide not to give you a chance to make that choice.

    Ill I can say is that there are a large number of groups that want your data, for a lot of different reasons, and none of them are for your benefit. So, are you going to let them have it, or are you going to take steps to reign in the amount of info you leave about?

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    22 hours ago

    A few weeks ago, I would have said 100%. I am needlessly careful.

    I know I’m protecting against privacy threats that are technically possible, but unlikely. Preventing the tracking is just an interesting hobby, to me.

    But earlier this month, we learned that Meta went “all-in” on what I consider some fucked up shit - running a mini localhost server to track the vanishingly few people who bother to block their tracking.

    So now I guess I’m only about 30% sure I’m being needlessly careful.

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    22 hours ago

    While certainly some people take it to a point that could be considered too far, I think that the reality is that you have to go very far if you want actual privacy today. I think most people either don’t know all the ways that their daily lives are being tracked and their activities are sold or they simply don’t care. To vast majority, doing anything that isn’t trivial is probably too far, and the more you talk about it with them, the more they will think it’s crazy. Most people of the older generation probably don’t “get it” or think it can be real, and very young people have probably never known privacy in their lives to much degree, so it can be a tough sell. I think Late Gen-X and Millienials are the main group that got to experience privacy when they were young and then saw it slowly eroded away in increasingly gross ways until it was gone.

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    23 hours ago

    Like most things on the internet it’s a game of one-upsmanship. User X uses Firefox with Incognito. User Y say’s that isn’t good enough for his own inconsistent definition of “good enough.”
    So User-Y suggests Firefox with 14 different add-ons and only browse through an immutable VM. But then user-z comes along and says that if you are using windows at all, you don’t really care about privacy, so you should be using Icefox on some obscure fork of ubuntu through an immutable VM, with a pi-hole.
    Then user-w says well if you aren’t using a VPN none of this matters, so Obviously you need to rent an Alibaba cloud server hosted in China, that you only connect to through a privacy respecting VPN, and then you only browse through TOR.

    And so on. By the time a user is asking about how to stop google ads, the only “serious” answer by the community involves using Packet over Ham-radio -> and spending thousands of dollars a month on 4 different cloud providers, rented through several shell companies set up in Switzerland, the Cayman Islands and China, while only typing in Esperanto using an ASCII-only font.

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      15 hours ago

      It’s so overwhelming. I just want to be able to use Wireshark well to figure out wft is going on at my house with outbound surveillance data.

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        13 hours ago

        Wireshark is the wrong tool for the job unless you are only interested in the destination IPs, but those are useless to most people because malware and PUPs are hosted on public cloud services or rarely hijacked insecure endpoints, so what value is a source IP going to get you? For example most ‘suspicious’ traffic is from your cell phone and some app is phoning home over TLS, with ‘home’ being an elastic IP in AWS.

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    1 day ago

    Yeah. I think people can become obsessive over it. I also think there is a large group of users who gamify privacy and act as if its an mmo quest where they just need to collect the best tools to win instead of being responsible and understanding threat modelling.

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      1 day ago

      There is a point of diminishing returns. Like most things, you have to evaluate what you are willing to live with and let go.

      I know someone who only browses incognito because they don’t want cookies tracking them. They log into everything every day. Which, imo, is worse because those cookies are still tracking you but you now have to log in everyday.

      But for them they like the control.

      I’ve moved most of my incidental link on my phone clicking to Firefox Focus (thanks to URL Checker) which has upped my privacy. I wouldn’t have made that change without the prompt that URL Checker provides though.

      I use a VPN outside of my house and I use pihole at home. I am tempted to switch my DNS to unbound but the juice doesn’t seem to be worth the squeeze. We’ll see the next time I need to rebuild my pi.

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        I used to run unbound on my laptop just so I could configure stuff like forwarding zones with more precision than what a stub resolver normally gives you.

        It can also be your validating DNSSEC resolver, which also satisfied that sort of morbid curiosity in me.

        In the age of DoT and DoH, with endpoints hardcoded in browser binaries, that sort of thing has a lot less punch than it used to. Even back then Go binaries would start ignoring your nsswitch.conf

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    Yes, paranoia is not healthy. When people can’t formulate a realistic threat model then usually to be “safe” they assume everyone is out there to get them … while failing the most basic steps, e.g. not relying on surveillance capitalist fueled tools voluntarily.

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    https://www.explainxkcd.com/wiki/index.php/2501:_Average_Familiarity

    Relevant XKCD;

    I feel that it is closer to the fact that the communities forgot most beginners are completely new to this in general. They might not even know what exactly a ‘browser’ is, much less cookies and stuff.

    Hence when we try to spoonfeed them information, it comes off as overwhelming and forced.

    Agree that there are some extremist, but they mostly act in good faith tbh.


    Another thing I noticed is there are more preachers of ‘how’ than ‘why’. Having a beginner go down the route of privacy without giving them a purpose to do so is quite off-putting.

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    Yeh my family treat me like I am a nut job. I only swapped away from google and ask them to think about the orgs they spend their money on for example Amazon.

    It’s amazing how many people got on board with Covid conspiracies but questioning where you data goes, who’s using it, what for, no that’s a bit far lol.

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      13 hours ago

      Told my older parents I use a custom ROM with a profile for work and a profile for personal and they asked me what I’m hiding, and why I’m so paranoid. I said… it’s not paranoia, it’s organization. Color coding profiles allows my mind to switch gears from work to personal life like mental compartments. I am a boring person. I have nothing to be paranoid about. They didn’t believe me. Oh well…

      Edit: part of me thinks the whole mental state switching from work profile to personal is an ADHD aspect as well. Especially the color coding helps wonders.