So I met this girl at the gym about 2-3 weeks ago. We’ve run into each other around four times and each time we talk, I feel like she gets me. She hugged me three times in one day, and I’ve never had to put on an act around her. When she took off her sweatshirt, I was blown away—she’s easily the most attractive girl I’ve ever met. What’s crazy is she came up to me first to introduce herself. I mean, how often does that happen? I’m not the guy who plays it cool or puts on a show, I’m just me with her. She’s got this amazing personality too. When we first met, she gave me her number but it was wrong, so I ended up texting someone else by mistake. I thought she wasn’t interested, but man, I was wrong. She actually likes me a lot. We click really well and find a lot in common. Today’s her birthday, and its definitely not to soon for a kiss, but could possibly we have sex in the same day? I don’t want to rush, but it feels right, you know?
If you’re both grownups and in good head space, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks is right or wrong. Hang out and see how it goes.