I know it’s a joke " oh haha you’re 30, everything hurts now cuz you’re so old!" But really, is something wrong with me or are backs just this stupid? Not overweight. Decently active although I don’t exersize every single day. No genetic issues, doctor always says im in perfect health. But my lower back will randomly act up, sometimes it gets so bad that I about black out from the pain. Thats pretty rare though, usually it’s just an ache all day when I move or try to put my socks on. Its not sciatica, as I never feel numbness or pain in my legs. Mild weakness maybe if it hurts really bad.

I feel like any doctor is just going to say welp, you’re old it happens, or tell me I need 3.5 million dollar spinal surgery.

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    30 天前

    If you need that spine surgery get it. I wish I had mine sooner. Most people don’t need surgery as physical theorpy fixes it. However when a few weeks wasn’t showing any improvement they sent me for a mri and that found something that surgery was needed before it parralized me. (Not cancer but still a growth)

    hopefully you have the same pains as everyone else but only a doctor can figure out the rare exceptions.

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    29 天前

    A doctor will order scans of the area to see if there’s anything obvious requiring surgery, otherwise a physio or similar should be able to provide you some exercises to strengthen the body. You could probably just take yoga, pilates or calisthenics classes as long as you don’t exacerbate things.

    You don’t mention doing any exercise.

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    30 天前

    Probably need to go to the doctor anyway bruv. I’m 30 and I am not hit with severe back pain. I am hit with mild to moderate pain that eases off throughout the day in response to overexerting myself or sleeping wrong.

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    29 天前

    I’m going to wager you don’t work out your core. Strengthen your core and you will likely experience a lot less back pain.

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    How tall are you? If the answer is yes, then it’s common

    Go to your doctor, take the meds they give you and do the exercises and you’ll feel better. Then focus on building back strength so that it doesn’t happen again.

    This is one of the scenarios where oats and squats actually do help

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    I started experiencing this after 30. In my case it’s back muscles tightening up, because of bad posture that lead to the weakening of the core muscles which put too much strain on the back.

    Got shown some excercises and got better after a while. Got back every once in a while, but usually I managed to get it under control.

    Just got back again and wouldn’t get away for weeks now. Sounds a lot like what you have. I’m going ti schedule the doctor again, I recommend you do the same. This shouldn’t be normal.

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      Can you name the exercises you were shown, or link to a video or article explaining them?

      I don’t know if this could be a case of “what’s good for me might be bad for you” but bad posture must be pretty common in today’s world.

      Did your back pain get as bad as OP’s?

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        I would if I could. A plank and a side plank were one of them. Other than that, no idea as I was shown the excercises, but was never really given names. And even then, I don’t live in English speaking country so might not be useful anyway.

        It was mostly about strenghtening the core and stomach muscles, without straining the back much.

        Not sure about pain levels. First time around, it was quite bad. I just suddenly couldn’t move, everything hurt so bad. Not quite blacking out pain but it was bad. I first did like one or two weeks of intensive back muscle stretching to be even able to do the other excercises. Currently the pain is not bad, but it is making my life dificult a bit as it blocks some movements.

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        I’m younger and don’t have a serious injury, so I wouldn’t say this would fix back pain for someone with an actual injury.

        But for me, back pain was fixed with better posture and muscle strengthening too.

        I think the biggest thing was focusing on engaging the muscles supporting the lower back. Glutes and core specifically.

        And for posture, just be conscious about keeping the body in alignment in a way that feels comfortable, not “sitting up straight”

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    30 天前

    I’m almost 40, tall, not in great shape, have bad posture, and have two misaligned disks in my lower back and even my back pain isn’t that bad, so I would say that no it’s not normal. You should definitely get that checked out.

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    30 天前

    In addition to spine and muscle issues, there can be other things going on like an enlarged prostate or other swelling that pinches nerves which hurt in the lower back area instead of where the cause is located. Less common than sitting too much, but is another possibility beyond spine or back muscle issues.

    I was surprised to find out that could feel like a kidney stone!

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    30 天前

    Some form of exercise are better for your back than others.

    Pain isn’t normal, and 30 is quite young so talk with a doctor, get a couple of physiotherapy session, and find a sport helping your back (and a whole strategy)

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    Tall desk jockey, heavy walker. Not trying to diagnose, but I learned from experience that weak abdominal activation caused over compensation in the lower back to an extreme degree. Went from zero back pain, to plenty during covid, back to relatively little. Yoga, walking and lifting to improve core strength helped. Could it be something like that?

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      So many people think chiros are legit… it’s fucking infuriating that shit is still around.

      They have chiropractors for horses…yes a massive animal that’s stupid muscular and stands 95% of its life. People are duped into thinking a 200lb or less human can “adjust” it’s body…

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        It also annoys me that my insurance groups chiro together with physio so people might think that they’re alternatives to each other. I had a colleague who said “physio just gives you exercises/homework while chiro fixes you on the spot”

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          I also have issues with the fact that major pharmacy brands like Walgreens and CVS put homeopathic remedies right alongside real meds. Make sure to actually read the labels on medicines, because lots of them are pure placebo. Zicam is an extremely popular cold medicine that claims to shorten the duration of a cold or the flu by like 50%, and it is completely homeopathic. There are lots of homeopathic labels scattered throughout the pharmacy, so checking the labels is extremely important.

          If you ever see something on the ingredients label like “{ingredient} X6” then that means that ingredient has been diluted 6 times. Homeopaths claim that more dilution makes the med stronger, like how fresh water is better able to dilute salt water. But many are so diluted that there likely isn’t any of the medication remaining.

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    Start weightlifting, more specifically deadlifts. I would discourage you to go to CrossFit and anything that involves mixing cardio with strength.

    Also, use as little machines as possible. 99% of the work is with dumbbells, barbells and a rack

    /me that had back pain in his late 20-mid 30… and then started weightlifting and had never had a back pain 🙂