The answer is to create new instances that don’t allow abuses of power. We shouldn’t be afraid of being ‘defederated’ from the abusive instances.

Unfortunately at this stage it seems that most of the people using Lemmy want extreme moderation and censorship. They want no disagreement, no challenging their opinions and ideologies, and as such they wouldn’t join an instance that allows actual free speech and difference of opinion. If you know of any instances with a decent amount of people let me know, cause I don’t know how much longer I’ll bother with Lemmy given how they call everyone they hate fascists…while banning everyone who doesn’t participate in their circle jerk.