I have a relative who’s son, about 10 year old, seems to be fond of me. He is an avid talker. He will talk about anything and everything with me. Problem is, he doesn’t understand that I’m an introverted piece of shit. Even though I like being with him when I feel like talking, other times I can’t match his energy and feel exhausted. To just ignore what he’s saying and stop responding all of a sudden makes me feel bad. He’s really a good kid. How do I tell him to give me a break without hurting him?
Oh the only technique ive got is, well now the adults need to talk, go outside or to your room and play.
But I prefer not to use that, just hang out with kids as much as they want if its a once in a while thing.
Or tire them out? Make em run in a game or smth.
I hate the whole “Adults need to talk” thing but you do you ig.
I don’t think it applies anyway because you don’t need to talk to adults, you need a break from talk.