I tested out revolt and element. Out of the two element seems to be the most well rounded. What do you people use to replace discord to protect your privacy?

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      Guilded is owned by Roblox Corporation last I checked, a company that promotes getting children addicted to stock market gambling, taking advantage of young child developers, and a platform that doesn’t respect your privacy in the slightest, asking for ID just to use voice chat (because of their major pedo problem).

      So I probably wouldn’t use Guilded

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        And Roblox Corporation is owned by Tencent Holdings which also owns Discord.

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      Don’t many of the IRC servers expose your IP address and have bots that store every chat message?

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        It’s separate, but you can use Matterbridge to connect the chat if you really want.

        Alternatively you can use Jitsi Meet, which can be integrated with Ergo and an IRC webclient like Convos, but that isn’t a simple setup then anymore.

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    I’m using matrix and quite happy with it - element for pc and fluffychat on mobile. unfortunately nothing is quite like discord in terms of features or popularity but matrix is probably the closest with the latter

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    If you still end up using Discord over other solutions, you can use https://vencord.dev/, it is discord, but with all the telemetry pulled out of it. Been using this for when I need to use Discord, assume it’s better than using normal discord at least, but probably still not a perfect solution.

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      I would add the caveat that since discord don’t allow third party clients, you run the risk of getting your account banned for violating their ToS.

      I’m fine with this personally, but it’s reasonable to not be so keen if your account is important to you.

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        Afaik no one has ever been banned for using a third party client in and of itself. People have been banned for userbotting or spamming but afaik not for using a third party client as a normal human user. But yes it is technically against TOS

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        Yup that is a fair warning. However I have been using it for as long as it has existed, and not have my account banned. But can see this being more of a problem Should Vencord get really popular.

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          I’ve been using it for a decent amount of time since the first party client doesn’t support wayland.

          You’re right in that it’s probably a slim chance they’ll target you, though I don’t really care about getting banned in any case.

          I wonder if they have a way of highlighting users who use vesktop / vencord to spoof access to nitro features like high bitrate streaming.

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    There isn’t a 1:1 app for Discord imo.
    Selfhosting a teamspeak3 (ts3) server solves the voicechat.
    Signal works great for text chats especially now that you don’t need to give other end users your phone number.
    Then I would probably look at hosting a web forum for adding calendars and other planning tools. There should still be possible to show current ts3 users on that site too.
    For open source projects codeberg for code repository/issues/feedback.
    I completely understand those who use Discord for ease of management, as time taken to host the above is time taken from the actual project.

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      Yea that is kinda what I have been noticing aswell. I don’t want perfect privacy like hiding my phone number with signal.

      I just want to talk with my friends, share my screen and have text channels without being harvested for data :)

      Element has all of this, the only problem I encountered is that everyones mic is suddely quite noisy as we are used to using discord’s noice suppression. I gues you have to sacrifice something for privacy. And I heard it can be quite a pain to self host, but I still have to try that out myself

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      As much as I appreciate what SimpleX is doing, it’s a massive memory hog on Android - 120mb all the time.

      I do look forward to seeing it mature though, I think that will improve, along with device linking.

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        Oh no ! In the age where everyone and their cat has atleast 32 gigs simplex is using my 120 mb whatever shall we do ?faints

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        My current stats:

        Molly: 445 Schildichat: 218

        SimpleX doesn’t sound so bad in regards to memory

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      To keep it short, there isn’t really any privacy.

      Servers are public and Private messages are stored without any envryption. If you delete your account then the messages stay and can still be found with your unique ID (just like Reddit). From what ive read Discord also stores your HWIDs and monitors your running processes (with a valid reason considering their game integration). Some say they only store that locally, others claim something else, haven’t seen any proof for either side so far.

      The problem really boils down to the fact that people treat discord as a private messenger instead of a public forum despite it clearly beeing the latter.

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    The Cinny client for Matrix is pretty good if you want to replace discord 1:1. There will be differences though but it should make the transition easier.

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    Matrix is pretty good, only problem is my friend groups can’t seem to make the switch. As in we all want to but we have other groups we talk to on discord so we’d have discord installed anyway, and I think some of us aren’t motivated enough to move our server over. I think generally the problem with privacy-respecting chat apps is everyone’s on whatsapp, everyone’s on discord, few “normies” or even less privacy-conscious communists will want to install a new app/program just to talk to you.

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        That’s a good idea! The next time my friends bring up switching to Matrix I’ll probably try set us up a bridge to encourage the move