I can remember playing super mario bros (the OG one) on my console when i was a wee lad since then playing games never gave me any joy and felt like i was wasting time for nothing .
I lost interest when life became more interesting. I earn a decent living now, but the games I play are around tech and society. Feels less like I’m throwing my time away.
For me it was simply family. I grew up and don’t have the time - but I regret nothing.
For you, if it doesn’t bring you joy then I agree you’re wasting your time. Maybe look into the underlying cause of that? I don’t think games are inherently a waste of time if they do bring joy- as then WTH is the point of life if not to enjoy it.
Wanted to fully experience life!
Grew up gaming. Stopped gaming for twenty years. Now I game again. I’ve had a great time. Climbed mountains. Traveled. All manner of relationships. Built a nice career. Now I find I can enjoy games without that, I’m wasting my life feeling.
All humans “waste” time. It’s odd to say reading is better than games. Or movies are better than TV. They’re all just mediums to convey stories. And really, there aren’t many original stories, just the same ones told over and over in different ways.
At least with games, you are actively participating rather than passively consuming. And yes I do read lots of complicated books, and watch fine cinema, and great television.
But I also garden, birding, botany, camp, etc.
I used to play tons of games but over time they simply got worse. Trying everything to suck every last drop of money out of you, battle pass, daily quests, seasons, limited time exclusive content, FOMO. And of course games that waste your time and are far too long for the sake of being long. I have like 300 hours in destiny but never reached the “actually good” endgame content. It was because after sinking 40 hours in a month or so, I would give up for some time and my progress is reset because of the new season, etc.
That and every game feels so stale. Another mindless PVP shooter, another cod every year, another battlefield. It also doesn’t help that now as an adult I have actual responsibilities and limited time. Plus as an adult you begin to actually value your life lol. I’m over the period of my life where I’d want to spend time gathering 1000 blocks of virtual sand.
Agree. Probably could have gotten my masters in the time I spent playing WoW.
This is why I almost exclusively play old games. OldSchool RuneScape, TF2, Gmod, Diablo 2… From Software’s games are the only modern games I’ll still play today, like Armored Core 6 and Elden Ring. I’ve put 600+ hours into speedrunning Dark Souls 1 rather than playing the garbage in the market these days.
Overwatch was the last modern game I got really into. Then the Overwatch “”“”“2"”“”" update happened, and I dropped the game entirely when I realized competitive gameplay elements were now being monetized in a game I paid $60 for. That and removing the ability to get cosmetics without paying, and removing all other forms of progression. There’s just no incentive to play anymore. Which is a shame, because when it came out it was the greatest class shooter out there.
I decided to apply myself at work.
Like, fully invested during work hours, fully off when it’s time to go home.
Suddenly, my drive to constantly fit a quick mobile game in here and there evaporated. Work became my game, efficiency, working safely, and skills improvement becoming my stats.
So workaholic ?
Idk. Work got easier for having my full attention during work hours, and home life got better for having my full attention there when I’m not working. Is that workaholic?
Nah i misunderstood i thought you started enjoying work and that eliminated the need for other entertainments
I get this hard. I’m a branch manager and you really get a kick out of outperforming your peers. Once those teeth sink into you, you start looking for ways to improve your team and to game the metrics. If you figure that out and you have a bonus structure you’re really addicted now. Helping your team succeed and developing them is even better. Every day is a game. I freaking love it.
I grew up. I also broke out of a shy shell more and prefer living life rather than sitting in my room, which wasn’t very good for my mental health.
Ain’t gotta sit alone in one’s room to enjoy gaming. Just about the only time I game anymore is when I’m hanging out with my friends.
Some of my favourite gaming moments have involved getting the friends together to have a few rounds of Mario Kart or other games
Multiplayer gaming with friends on something simple is far more superior to playing alone. I wholeheartedly agree with this.
For me, a lot of games just don’t grab my attention. I’m not interested in playing online on a team, especially with strangers. I definitely don’t want to wade through menus of crap that try to make me buy something.
I don’t want to have to invest hours into a game before I get anywhere either. I tried Zelda :TOTK recently, and I watched what felt like half an hour’s worth of cutscenes before I could do anything other than follow a predetermined path, and it just bored the crap out of me.
Everything seems to be sports, team multiplayer, or massively in depth stories now, with no room for quick, easy to play games that are not mobile games.
Life hit hard. But I took up on gaming again during the lockdown. Now I get together with my boomer squad every other day. Laughs and giggles.
I’m tired all the time and there’s almost always something else I should be doing. Plus, so many games feel like just more work instead of fun.
It seems that most modern games aren’t made for people like me any more. I don’t care for multiplayer, and will not be buying any DLC or microtransaction shit. I just want a self-contained, high-quality single-player experience. There’s maybe a couple of games per year released that catch my interest now.
If you’re into a little bit of horror and humor, check out 'You will die here tonight". It’s a survival story indie game my buddy released last year.
I was primarily a PC gamer. Life happened.
Time was already tight. I was working 2 jobs totaling ~80 hours a week. About the time I finally quit one, my computer let out the magic smoke. Rent went up, replaced my beater of a car, bought a house because rent was going up again, found out I was going to be a parent, house needed work, replaced my SO’s car, fixed fire damage to the house, SO quit their job, found out I was gonna be a parent x2.
Things just got busy fast. That computer blew the magic smoke 6-7 years ago now. I’ve saved up the money to replace it several times, but something else more important always comes up. I’d still love to replace it and game again, but I’ve been out of it so long that I don’t even really know what games are out anymore or what I’d like to play, and honestly I get more joy out of occasionally playing Smash Bros on the Switch with my first kiddo. The game is ok, but time with the kiddo is valuable.
Yep. Time and money. I’ve spent the last 10 years having not enough of either. Now I finally have the money, maybe in a few more years I’ll have the time.
Chores, work, socializing and the cost of new games
My brain has degraded. I read a lot alright, but movies, TV shows and games are harder and harder to enjoy. I still think games are the highest form of art and when I enjoy them, I enjoy them hard.
Gaming started giving me anxiety. I stopped for a bit. Then whenever I try and come back, they’ve just gotten overwhelmingly complex.
I play old games because I built my compiter in 2013, so it’s Stellaris, Minecraft, Doom (with randomizer WADs), Action Half-Life, and Quake
