• intensely_human@lemm.ee
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    7 months ago

    The meme is inviting us to see: BIG and LITTLE.

    If that’s a basis of judgment for you, own it as your own thing instead of trying to put that on others.

    • inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      Totally ignoring the majority of women are mocked for having big or little breasts at many points in their life. If you are going to play dumb about it then I can’t help you, but you should really talk to any woman you have in your life and let them explain it to ya. I’m not gonna walk you through an extremely common experience.

      • Resonosity@lemmy.world
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        7 months ago

        Assigning big = better and small = worse is indeed a judgement.

        I think some people would argue that smaller growth = better since economies do better given slow change rather than rapid change, as rapid change might lead to rebounds.

        By even recognizing traits that seem similar across humans, we’re isolating those parts of them while ignoring the richness of their being. It is objectification.

        But objectification is only detrimental when we assign judgements to what we compare. I’m not a woman so I haven’t experienced the turmoil in those comparing breasts or other factors that men desire, but I am taller than average so I get the other end of the stick in how men are judged based on their height - often by women.

        Being short or tall has nothing to do with your intrinsic value as a human being, but there is extrinsic value created by those outside of us. I agree in that we should be prioritizing the former instead of the latter in society, which is why posts like this are problematic.