To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

Growing up in the 90’s, the “minimum acceptable” tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

What do you usually do?

  • jqubed@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Typically somewhere between 15-20%. I do a rough mental calculation figuring out 10% by moving the decimal, then either double that or figure out what half of that is and roughly add that amount to the 10% amount, then go with a nice roundish number (to the nearest quarter) in that range. Usually a little higher than my rough estimate for 15% if I’m on that low end just so my rough math doesn’t inadvertently shortchange the server.

    I make my calculation based on the total with tax included. I know some people go on the pretax amount.

    BONUS: If I’m doing a delivery service like DoorDash, I look up my distance to the restaurant and make sure the tip is always at least equal to the mileage. I used to drive for them and $1/mile was always my minimum. DoorDash at least would typically only kick in $2/delivery, unless there were bonus promos. Since the driver might not be at the restaurant I figure that’s probably enough to get them to the restaurant, then the tip will get them from there to me. Actually, at home my house is several miles from any restaurants, so I usually go $4 above that to make sure the driver doesn’t lose money getting back to civilization. If I’m at a hotel close to restaurants I won’t necessarily do that. If it’s something where I’d like to try to get the best service I’ll go higher; they typically offer the highest pay orders to their top rated drivers first.

  • gm0n3y@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    Typically 20-25 at a restaurant. I’m not a fan of tipping for transactions where I’m not served. I only tip when someone does something.

  • bradorsomething@ttrpg.network
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    4 months ago

    I give $2 for a pizza, $1-2 if I’m picking up to go. Usually I go 15-20% for standard service but rarely tip over $30 a server unless the meal was outstanding.

  • otp@sh.itjust.works
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    4 months ago

    I was going to answer, but then you clarified on the body of your post that you only wanted answers from people in the US, lol

  • Zahille7@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Growing up, and even after working in foodservice, I was always told to tip at least 20% (almost) regardless of service.

    There’s been maybe two times I didn’t tip 20% and the lower tip was definitely earned.

  • Zak@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    In the USA: 20%. In Europe: 10%. If service is exceptional or bad, I adjust up or down.

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      4 months ago

      Stop tipping in EU. Last time someone asked me to tip in Germany got a 1 star review.

      • Zak@lemmy.world
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        4 months ago

        I do what I want.

        Tipping in restaurants is normal in Germany; here’s the German Wikipedia article on the subject. Staff asking for a tip doesn’t seem normal though, and I’d find that rude.

    • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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      4 months ago

      Please don’t fucking tip in Europe, tipping culture isn’t normalized there and servers actually get a fair wage.

      • Zak@lemmy.world
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        4 months ago

        Tipping at restaurants is already normal in Germany, France, and Italy if there is not a service charge on the check.

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        4 months ago

        As a Romanian, tipping here does very much help Hospitality/Delivery workers, as our wages are deep down the toilet.

        Our tipping culture is (or was, at least) pretty similar to the US’s, 10-15% as a standard tip, 20% if you’re flush and the service was notable (checking up on you occasionally, helping you make sense of things if need be, polite, nothing over-the-top). Same thing goes for delivery people.

        Nowadays, I suspect people have somewhat maintained the ratios, although this comes mostly as an anecdotal observation - I started tipping 20-25%, or even double that if I’m ordering groceries (because I stock up for weeks, so it’s quite a bit to carry), and a LOT of delivery people have remarked that it was the largest tip they’d ever received (as an average example, about a 20RON ~ $4 tip to a 100RON ~ $21 food order).

  • Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
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    4 months ago

    Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee’s market value are between the employee and their employer. I don’t believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees’ wages.

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      4 months ago

      Your choice not to tip will make no difference to the company, but every difference to a person who suffers through customer service for a living.

      “I don’t want to subsidize a company” is just you inventing a convenient way to justify what is essentially theft. Why stop at not tipping? You could probably get away with stealing IDK, playground equipment too.

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          4 months ago

          At least in the US, tipping is the accepted way that we compensate certain people for their time.

          If you habitually never tip, you are not paying for the service that you receive in good faith. This is theft of service.

          If you don’t like tipping, patronize places that include the tip in the bill. Tell restaurant owners to change their pay structure to avoid it. It won’t be changed by you individually shirking your obligation to pay.

    • FromPieces@lemmygrad.ml
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      4 months ago

      While your argument is sound, a server can’t feed their children or care for disabled parents with sound arguments and principled stances.

      • PresidentCamacho@lemm.ee
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        4 months ago

        Yeah the idea is ultimately that you help enable the system by participating. Ultimately nothing changes by a couple cheap assholes refusing to tip like this guy, so you should, it would only work if everyone decided not to. It would force the industry to adapt.

  • FromPieces@lemmygrad.ml
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    4 months ago

    I usually aim for the nearest dollar around 30%.

    I’m a defense contractor and none of the “work” I have ever done in my life has done any human any good. I think it’s important to use my nonsense salary to pay the people who actually add value to society.

  • CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    15% typically, more if it warrants it. Food keeps getting more expensive, so the percentage doesn’t have to go up.

  • Today@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Usually 20% and round up the change. Less of there are server issues. A buck or two more if service is super. I don’t tip if I’m standing up when i order.

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    4 months ago

    15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I’ll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

    • makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml
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      4 months ago

      Don’t pay it. In Australia they’re trying, and I remind them they get paid well, get paid overtime, get paid a pension, and get paid more to take holidays. After being paid all that, why is the shitty machine prompting a tip?

  • Dem Bosain@midwest.social
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    4 months ago

    I have generally tipped at least 20%. But tipped workers in my state just fought to keep their sub-minimum wage, because republicans convinced them that people would stop tipping if they were paid more. Tipped minimum wage was going up to $6, but now it’s only going up to $4.74. I’ve been tipping too much, and will bring it back down to max 15%.