• LustyArgonian@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    No true scotsman fallacy for women’s sexuality? Lol.

    Yes, sex clubs enforce rules regarding consent as best as they can, so someone like you who isn’t used to clear communication could benefit from going and speaking with someone and understanding what that’s like. It could tell you more about yourself.

    I will say that most of the same people who play DND, go to Comic Con, Renn Faires, are at sex clubs. They even have DND nights at some sex clubs. DND also gives people an ability to understand consent including with what we discuss, and to be able to have meta discussions and step outside of our egos.

    most men’s experience is that women are barely comprehensible

    No, that’s just you and some younger and inexperienced men. Women are just people. People are people.

    recently got a new room mate and on the first evening we randomly chatted about our music taste for 2 hours straight.

    You’re gay. That’s not the fault of women.

    Women don’t even know what they like themselves.

    Yes, they do. They just don’t tell you because you give off unsafe vibes. They literally don’t trust you so they pretend to not have opinions en masse. Reflect on that.

    Some inexperienced sex partners may not know what physical acts they like, but they can generally describe porn or other fantasies they like as a starting point if they trust you.

    When pressed to make a decision on the spot they tend to divert.

    Yes, if being pressed by another person arbitrarily to make a decision, many people retain their power by refusing to give you an answer. This annoys you so you try to triangulate them with men’s behavior. It’s not that they can’t make a decision, it’s that they are checking your sense of entitlement in demanding one from them in the first place. Why do you get to police women’s decisions? It’s simply that you extend patience to men and don’t rush them, or otherwise you’d be getting these power struggles with them too. You like men. Be honest about it.

    The more you say men are victims compared to women, the harder I beat my male subs while laughing maniacally and they thank me. Your opinions on women are wrong. Abortion laws alone, the laws that will make it so married women can’t vote because they had a name change, the laws affecting transwomen, all show we don’t have it easier.

    https://weta.org/watch/shows/independent-lens/half-sky-turning-oppression-opportunity-ep-1

    Usually if a man complains about his comfort it’s not because something simply bothers him but because conditions have gotten borderline hell-like.

    This is an example of being a bad communicator and also being unaware of your boundaries (emotionally or physically unaware and uneducated).

    You spend a lot of time assuming you know what women think for someone claiming he’s a man. Are you sure you consider yourself a man? This is all heavy pickme energy, a self hating woman, and it’s just wrong. Like watch Sex and the City or like Sarah Silverman or Sex Lives of College Girls or whatever. There’s a million examples counteracting what you’re saying. So why rabidly stick to this weird, rigid narrative?

    Do women think that men aren’t scared if other men, and what they might do?

    No. They don’t think that.

    Why is fear monopolized by women?

    It isn’t

    Men try to keep themselves happy because who else is going to do all the dirty work that need to be done to keep this rock spinning?

    Women disproportionately are in fields with child rearing, nursing, veterinary work, cleaning, and cooking - very dirty jobs that are necessary. That you dismiss women’s labor as nothing is misogyny.

    Also, we ALL are keeping ourselves happy because anything else is codependency and we are mature adults who take care of our own feelings. You’re not entitled to the emotional labor of women. Get a fucking hobby like DND, go to a nerd shop, make friends in your community.

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      Jesus, talking about proving my point. You just put hundreds of words in my mouth that I never said.

      The more you say men are victims compared to women, the harder I beat my male subs while laughing maniacally and they thank me.

      That is a fucked up think to say. Imagine being so vurnable to someone only to find out they just use you to exercise their personal misandristic vendaetta with physical violence.

      Yes, sex clubs enforce rules regarding consent as best as they can, so someone like you who isn’t used to clear communication could benefit from going and speaking with someone and understanding what that’s like.

      Honestly, after your last statement I’m kind of afraid of what kind of explotation masked as “progressiveness” and “self expression” might go on there.

      You’re gay. That’s not the fault of women.

      The hell kinda statement is that? I’m a tenant in a shared house, I don’t get to pick my room mates. I just try to get along with people and make good conversation. How is it gay if I happen to easily vibe with someone?

      Apparently, Its even worse than I thought. Most other men would never judge you on such a statment and simply be happy for you, but there are apperently women that will gladly securitize and mislabel you right of the bat. Is that the inclusiveness you’re trying to sell?

      No, that’s just you and some younger and inexperienced men. Women are just people. People are people.

      The general conccessus is that younger unexperienced men try harder to understand women because they are under the impression that it will put them in their favor. Older men usually don’t bother anymore. They understand what they have to do to keep the yapping in check and this will mostly be enough till death will do them appart.

      child (b)earing, nursing, veterinary work, cleaning, and cooking - very dirty jobs that are necessary

      I meant dirty work in the most literal sense. Sewage, trash collection, sanitation, oil rigs, mining quarries, etc. Every Monday morning I catch the trash collector guys in my neighborhood, never in my life have I seen a woman in a neon orange jumper hanging off of a garbage truck. But I’ve seen a whole lot of male nurses, cleaning crews or cooks before. Don’t act like women will gladly pick up all men’s actual dirty jobs if they would be fed up with them.

      Like watch Sex and the City or like Sarah Silverman or Sex Lives of College Girls or whatever.

      I’ve grown up in the 2000’s of course I’ve seen all the Sex and the Cities and Sarah Silverman (in my opinion) is an one of the all time greats. But maybe we shouldn’t base our view of reality on fictionalized work? What’s next you gonna cite some of your AO3 bookmarks as your sources of knowledge? Come on getthefuckoutahere with that shit.

      Also, we ALL are keeping ourselves happy because anything else is codependency and we are mature adults who take care of our own feelings.

      No, even fully grown men can find a cool stick on the ground and it will make their whole day. Women need 5 pillars of globalized industry, same day delivery with a free return policy and idealy sombody else to foot the bill to make them be a little bit less annoyed. That’s why men start digging holes at the beach with their bare hands and women use a 10 MP front facing camera in a $1000 phone with a stabilized selfie stick and a 20000mAh powerbank to take vacation pictures.