I have three with one on the way. It’s a constant struggle to keep the place livable. Before I had children I was not a neat person and kept things livable by not doing things that made mess and staying out as much as possible. Can’t do that with kids, so what’s the trick?
Hard. Really hard. Particularly when my wife is not so clean.
I had to just give up really. I still put their toys away but the house still felt messy to me.
All I ever think of is this when I tidy things up…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOK5Ez0a_g4&t=12