• THE MASTERMIND@feddit.ch
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      9 months ago

      I’m not a narcissist they have litterally told me i am an asshole because i don’t talk to everyone all the time.

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        9 months ago

        As There seems to be a lot more to this story as it unravels. And yeah, that is a narcissist move to withhold information just to manufacture negative interaction.

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        9 months ago

        I’ve been told by coworkers “I thought you were an asshole because you didn’t talk to me for like a week when I first started” several times.

        I have nothing to say, so I say nothing. When I do have something to say, I will say it. It doesn’t have to be more complicated than that. I just don’t feel the desire to fill silence with idle chat when I’m at work.

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          9 months ago

          So someone would say hi and you just stared at them. They aren’t wrong, narcissist.

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            9 months ago

            Yes, because “completely ignoring when someone is speaking to you as if they aren’t there” is what is meant instead of “I don’t go out of my way to initiate conversation”

            If that makes me a narcissist by your definition so be it.

            Maybe think for half a second, asshole.

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              9 months ago

              Your melt down reactions over lacking some basic common decency aren’t helping your case any.