• Laser@feddit.org
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    1 month ago

    Using this for future family scam attempts lol

    Also sorry that your father has no empathy

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      1 month ago

      Here he made me send him a picture of the scale. I’m 5’6.9” for reference. It’s not even a lot at all.

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        1 month ago

        Pretty confident that if you absorb anything being said to you like this, it will eat you alive. Keep facing other directions and be influenced by people you respect and adore.

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        That’s on the low side of “Normal weight” per the BMI chart.

        I’m 33, 5’7" and 175 lbs. Technically overweight, but I still look fine. It really really depends on your build.

        Anyway I’d take that screencap as proof of verbal/emotional abuse.

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        1 month ago

        One day, the tables will turn.

        That day will be a test of character

        Why some people are like this? Don’t know and trying to make sense of it is often futile, especially if you’re caught in the relationship yourself and as such have only a limited / warped perspective… all I can say is that his behavior is extremely sickening.

        Everyone deserves love, empathy and compassion from their parents - I’m sorry that your father seems incapable of that, but none of that is your fault.