I’ve heard of things like iPostal and Traveling Mailbox. Would a normal P.O box using its physical address from USPS work? I’ve tried researching it and haven’t gotten clear answers.
I don’t want to show up on those whitepages sites with all my information on them. I want to stop it from the start.
Tell them you’re homeless. Put your address as “No fixed address” and use Post Restante — also known as General Delivery.
If they make a fuss and demand a home address, reiterate that you’re homeless and demand that they provide you with a home. Worked for me (when I actually was homeless) for a few years.