Please don’t think I’m here to complain about rizz or skibidi toilet etc. Thats all fine by me.

The term I dislike strongly is ‘eeeh’ before you make a statement disagreeing with someone. (This is over text only). Now maybe I’ve been pavloved bc it’s always used by someone disagreeing. But I’m happy with people disagreeing with me normally its just the ‘eeeh’ or ‘erm’ that annoys me.

So what’s a random term that annoys you?

PS. Saying “eeeh actually ‘eeh’ is a perfectly fine term” would be a ridiculously easy joke and I will judge you for making it. And I know atleast one person will. Especially bow that I’ve said all this.

  • Muun@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    11 months ago

    My son started saying “what the sigma?” constantly. I’ve tried to figure out where it came from and only landed on some “Sigma Male” shit on youtube.

    Drives me nuts.

    • Vanth@reddthat.comEnglish
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      11 months ago

      Yeah, just “sigma” goes back to sigma male claptrap. But as with all internet memes, it evolved super rapidly and took on layers. “Sigma” started to mean just “the best”, not in reference to male hierarchy necessarily. Then there was a cartoon clip with Squidward from SpongeBob where he said “what the sigma” and it went viral.

      Websearch “what the sigma meme” today and you will get text and video explanations of the meme for old folks like you and me. I prefer ones from teachers who interact with middle schoolers; our frontline troops facing the bleeding edge of internet memespeak.

    • Wolf314159@startrek.website
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      11 months ago

      Start using it yourself. Use it in awkward, wrong, uncool ways. They’ll drop that shit like, “What the sigma Dad!?!”

    • billwashere@lemmy.worldEnglish
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      11 months ago

      I think it might be from a SpongeBob SquarePants meme. You might wanna start there. Not sure why that’s tickling my brain.

      Oh and I just found this: https://knowyourmeme.com/editorials/guides/whats-erm-what-the-sigma-meme-about-the-catchphrase-and-overstimulation-video-explained

      So it looks like started as a TikTok thing and then spread into the SpongeBob world.

      I’m not sure why my ADHD brain latched on to this question but I HAD to find the answer. I don’t know if this is definitive but it’s at least a direction.

    • IHave69XiBucks@lemmygrad.ml
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      11 months ago

      lol i think your too focused on the sigma part. What the _____? has a similar meaning as far as i can tell. Some guy just said sigma instead one time on tiktok and it sounded funny so people copied him.

      What the heck

      What the hell

      What the fuck

      etc all basically are used the same altho what the sigma tends to be used in a more lighthearted way from what i can tell. Like what the fuck is more angry.

  • dirtbiker509@lemm.ee
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    11 months ago

    Please do the needful.

    This one really grinds my gears! I think it’s because the person can’t even be bothered to describe what they want you to do, just go fix it and don’t bother me with any details.

    • Brahvim Bhaktvatsal@lemmy.kde.socialisiZulu
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      11 months ago

      Indian here. Redditors say that Indians say this a lot. I’d like to tell you that while Indians do use this sentence, it’s almost always placed only after a long, somewhat-gone-off-tangent-in-some-places conversation that explained everything well.

      Maaaaaaybe it was to convince you without describing tasks, but… mostly, it’s not so.

      Also, I don’t remember hearing it IRL at all. Just felt like I have heard it at least twice in my 18 years of humaning around.

      • klemptor@startrek.website
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        11 months ago

        But why use such an awkward construction? Why not “please handle this” or “please take care of this”? Or even “please take the necessary steps to address this”? “Please do the needful” is saying Please [VERB] the [ADJECTIVE]. But the correct construction is to verb a noun. So you need a noun (e.g., “this”) to act on.

        And additionally, “needful” is an adjective, and rarely ever used anyway. For example, you could probably describe a homeless person as “needful”, but it sounds awkward, and most people would say “needy” or “in need.”

  • 0ops@lemm.ee
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    11 months ago

    I do the “eh” thing sometimes without thinking about it but I agree with you, I don’t like being on the other end of it either. I’m trying to work on that

  • REgon [they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    11 months ago

    “bend the knee”
    “Sweet summer child”
    And other phrases from GoT that people now pretend they’ve been saying their whole lives

  • iii@mander.xyzEnglish
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    11 months ago

    “Solidarity” as it’s too often used to make others do things you want.

  • fart_pickle@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    For me it’s “I’m offended” or “this offends me”. I get it, some topics might be triggering for some people but if you get offended because someone has a different opinion, that’s your problem, not the rest of the world problem.

  • Etterra@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Lemmings. A creature with a (erroneous but nevertheless extant) reputation for idiotically following each other off a cliff to die.