• greedytacothief@lemmy.world
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    29 days ago

    I mean, looking like you know what you’re doing, looking confident doesn’t mean you have to dress plain.

    Also I am sure gym bros will complement you on your body. Kind of like how as a straight man I only get compliments on my facial hair from other men. Look for validation from your friends not randos

    • pmk@lemmy.sdf.org
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      29 days ago

      True, I don’t have to dress plain, but if clothes make no difference for her, I just wear what I feel most comfortable in. I know how I react when I see her in yoga pants, and I wish I had the option to affect her similarly through clothing.