• TheBananaKing@lemmy.world
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    20 days ago

    Good lord, speak plainly.

    That’s more of a swingers thing than a poly thing.

    In the vast majority of poly relationships, people are in separate relationships with each of their partners.

    Triads (and quads, etc) are hard-mode. They certainly exist, but they take skill and effort from everyone involved, and so are significantly more rare. And of those, probably only a minority are going to be into the whole group-sex thing in the first place so… not very often.

  • WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    20 days ago

    I tried it. Basically all the time. Turned out to be a nightmare pretty quick. Don’t recommend unless you have exceptional communication skills and a lot of self confidence.

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      20 days ago

      Yeah without any stated stake in this, this seems to be just looking for free smut to read. This isn’t the place.