So as you can see in the picture, I threw a party last year. AEW is a pro wrestling company, much like WWE. They had this big outdoor show at Wembley Stadium in London. Sold something like 80,000 tickets. We watched live on PPV.

It’s the first time I ever threw a wrestling watch party. I invited 4 people. I bought cheese, soft pretzels, bought chips/queso. I had vodka, whiskey, beer, and 3 different THC vape pens along with edible gummies. I also had coke (the soda), barqs root beer, and one of the special novelty mountain dew flavors.

I cooked chicken, and cut the cheese into cubes with individual toothpicks. I got out my good plates. And used the projector to make the screen 90 inches.

Only 2 people showed up. Nobody ate hardly anything. Nobody drank anything. Hardly anything was said. This picture was taken AFTER the party. We went through 1 bag of chips, and 1 1/2 jars of queso.

I literally could have just bought 1 bag of chips, 2 jars of queso, and saved $100 and 2 days of prep work.

I even had 2 different styles of BBQ sauce for the chicken.

Yes, it’s a year later, and I’m still mildly infuriated over it!

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    2 months ago

    I got you bro.

    I operate a hiking Meetup and a climbing Meetup.

    The climbing Meetup I’m watching as a single member is slowly hijacking it

    The hiking Meetup I put in so much work and its so intermittent.

    The people who do join love it, I have great reviews and basically perfect scores, but just seems like everyone has better things to do

    Screw 'en

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      2 months ago

      Hell, offer me free booze, trees, food, and Wrestling… I’ll be there and promise to be better company than those guys

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    Is that a tip jar on the table? Even if not, just the association is enough for people to feel like they have to contribute financially for the food. While that isn’t an outrageous thought, for people who are tight on their finances, it might be an uncomfortable situation where they’d rather skip on the food than take it and not pay a share.

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      No, thats actually a coin counting jar. I keep loose change in it, but the top counts your coins as you put them in. I also have some lapel pins in there, and some eyeglasses screwdrivers.

      I never would have thought to assosiate that with a tip jar.

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        Well - I thought I’d mention that it could look like that - but of course it really depends on the personality / financial situation of your friends whether that might have influenced them

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    I never understand posts like this. Someone could ask me to split a six piece nugget and I’m there. Sorry that you went through that, but it looks wonderful, and very thoughtful. They don’t deserve you ❤️

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    This is why I always eat all the food I can at a party. Everyone else is being too polite and someone’s gotta eat all that food.

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    I don’t really like wrestling but I like parties and that food that you made. Invite me next time. I’ll make sure your food gets eaten.

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    I don’t know if that makes you feel better, but for my 40th birthday I invited 20 people, prepared accordingly, and 3 showed up.
    Not even my wife was there, cause she ate too much of the dough for the weed brownies she had made for the occasion.
    She crashed half an hour before the guests showed up.

    We sat around the table, emptied a couple bags of chips, I was the only one who drank beer. My friends left after 2 hours.

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        It’s ok, not every social event is going to go well and most of the time it’s nothing personal, we’re all just kind of bumbling along through the confusing and absurd reality that is life.

        May I join this group hug?

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      This reminds me that expectation is the enemy of happiness. I didn’t plan anything last year for my 34th, just hung out with my dog like a regular day and went on a hike. No disappointment, just another day!

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      I dont even have parties because I know no one will show up so that’s pretty good.

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    I’m sorry this happened but if it makes you feel better, I’d totally love to come over there and chow down on all of that stuff.

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    spread + AEW sounds like a great time OP I think its possible that your friends are not pro-level friends but maybe something else is amiss?

    • live in ohio
    • not good at video games
    • only know 4 girls, all have same name
    • the guys were all white dudes with beard + glasses, couldn’t tell each other apart
    • invited mean guy

    if not one of those try getting pro friends

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      …I DO live in Ohio…and not that good at video games. All the women I know have different names. I feel like I’m missing a reference with that, unless you ARE referencing the Oblongs, in which case bravo. There was one white dude with a beard, no glasses, but he didn’t show. No mean people.

      I’d love some pro friends. Got any that live near Cleveland?