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  • sroos@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    I guess you’re a man?
    So am I.
    Have you been treated like shit in your relationships? I’m sorry to hear that.
    I have been treated by like shit by some women in relationships as well. Then I got out of those relationships.

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      2 months ago

      The moral of the story is: Don’t hang around in relationships where you’re treated like shit.

      There’s other possible morals here too, but let’s keep with this one. I think it says it all.

      • HauntedCupcake@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        I know you peeps probably didn’t mean it this way, but men fall victim to the same psychological traps women do. It’s not that easy to just leave a bad relationship, especially if you don’t have the expectations and tools required to identify what’s not normal

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          2 months ago

          You’re absolutely right, of course.
          We should aspire to ensure everyone is equipped in that respect before they leave home!
          What I want to say is: Yeah, it can be as difficult for men to leave a bad relationship as it can be for women. That isn’t a reason to treat men any different from women.