Nobody tells me what I’m going to do or where I will be going and when that happens
I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact in the course of normal discourse
Nobody tells me what I’m going to do or where I will be going and when that happens
I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact in the course of normal discourse
In my experience it’s not so much about putting a limit as it is about avoiding takers and finding other givers. But one has to be careful not to be used. :)
I find it’s important to allow yourself to be vulnerable to a moderate degree, to give people the chance to expose themselves as a giver or taker.