“why don’t strangers touch me more?”
no thanks.
Doesn’t matter to me whether they put it in my hand or on the counter. Whatever works for them.
Whats worse is when they put it on top of the bills and hand it all back to you at once, like some kind of fucked up magic trick. The shit that I just bought is in my other hand, how in the fuck am I supposed to get this change into my pocket?
Pour the change into your mouth, put the bills neatly in your wallet, then put the coins in the wallet whenever they’ve lost their flavor.
so I was not supposed to swallow the coins??
You can do that if they were in need of a polish. It’s just a bit difficult to aim directly into the wallet when they’re done.
Only if your body is low on Nickel or Pennium
One of the things I thought was neat when I visited Japan was that some places would give you change back in a dedicated little tray with rubber “fingers” that made the coins easier to pick up, so you didn’t struggle to pick them off a flat counter.
Common enough in eastern Europe too.
Cash has been so uncommon in my country for a very long time. It’s like an insult to give a friend cash, like, “Here. This is your problem now.”
I think I used to just hold my open wallet in one hand and accept the cash in the other, slide the coins off, slot the notes in, and grab my stuff. I don’t remember it being annoying. Though our notes were polymer so coins slid easy.
Excellent, gotta keep the traceability up so the banks can change their TOS to sell your spending habit data
From my time on Reddit years ago this question came up.
Some cashier’s said they reciprocate the exchange back to the customer. If the customer puts cash on the counter for them to pick up, they’ll put the change on the counter in return.
There also was probably some new training from covid where you didn’t want to touch people directly, so those training materials probably still exist
This is the right answer. Source: worked as a cashier.
- You are surprised you have to pay for stuff and need minutes to find your money? I’m surprised too that I have to hand you back some change and need just as much time.
- You have been an asshole in general? Just let me grab a fresh roll of small coins, open it an take coin after coin and put everything on the counter.
- My all time favorite: A guy came and was ready to pay the correct sum (it was like three coins). He immediately left after putting everything on the counter. I wondered why he was in such a hurry. Then I saw that he paid with a foreign coin that looked like a 2€ coin but was actually worth around 50 Cents back then. I don’t know why but I am really good in recognizing faces. So I used my superpower for my petty revenge: I waited around 3-6 months until this guy came again. He paid with a bill. When giving him his change, I grabbed that coin as the last one placed it on the counter and gave it back.
Cashiers are human beings. They are intellectually as able as everybody else. And they know all tricks from customers. So please, have some respect for people doing their jobs.
I remember that explanation too. Additionally, in some cultures putting money directly into the hand of another person is frowned upon for various reasons.
Yup it’s like the other person was begging for money.
In my grandfather’s culture, frowning upon things is frowned upon
There are two things in this world I can’t stand: people who are intolerant of other people’s cultures, and the Dutch.
- Nigel Powers
How would they know if you didn’t scratch your anus before?
I don’t want to touch your hands. Especially if you were being a bit of an ass. Simple as that.
It’s possible to drop change into someone’s hands without physically touching them though. I don’t like physical contact either, and on the rare times I pay with cash, I hand it to the cashier without making physical contact. I remember there was one store I went to that the cashier literally put the change on the counter right beside my outstretched hand and open palm, every time. And it was annoying to pick up change from a stainless steel counter.
It may be possible but that doesn’t mean people respect that. Some people go out of their way to touch you when receiving change back by moving their hand up and closing close to yours before youre done letting go of the change. I remember this shit when I was a cashier. Hated it.
The simpler answer is not to even allow it or get close at all.
I love those auto dispensers for change.
Or cards. Use cards.
Yeah I’ve had a couple of customers outright wrap their hand around mine as I handed them their change. It’s creepy and invasive. If it happened enough times, I’d just start putting everyone’s change on the counter.
“They told me to stop touching the customer. Have a nice day.”
Nine times out of ten the customer is busy wrangling their items or dealing with their kid. Instead of awkwardly waiting, hand outstretched, I put the change on the counter. I then start prepping for the next customer as we’re timed on the whole process.
They don’t want to touch you, or to depend on your qualifications in order to fulfill the task
Putting the change on the counter leaves 0 chance that you’ll fuck up the process for them, in any way
Checking if you chew your nails
If you can’t be bothered to speed up the transaction by using a credit or debit card, don’t be surprised when the cashier can’t be bothered to put the change in your hand.
Handling cash is a nuisance, and slows down the line.
Some shops are installing cash machines. If you don’t want to deal with one machine for your card, deal with the other machine for cash.
I simply matched customer energy. If you were nice and polite I’m nice and polite. If you threw your money at me I’m hucking it across the store and you can eat shit.
Is it considered impolite to place it on the counter? I mean I get it if they had their hand out, but if they’re just looking at me or busy with their hands fair fame.
Counterpoint, if the customer places the money on the counter for payment, how is there any issue if the cashier returns change by placing it on the counter?
What is considered polite may differ by region and culture. (I’m not claiming you specifically would be upset at this, it’s just relevant to the meme.)
If they’re not looking I just wait until they are.
As for impolite it’s more an inconvenience. Especially if it’s not stacked and just kinda thrown down.
Im not touching your fuckin hand you booger eating ass scratching finger bangin dick beaters