I’m 26F, and these last two years my body has gone crazy… Is this normal? And how can I control this? Would regular masturbation help or something? It really makes me go crazy romantically speaking too 😅 like having weird fantasies and attractions for random people. So I would really like to control this better. I first noticed a big change after I stopped smoking… I’ve also been exercising a lot so maybe it’s that?
Smoking, alcohol, drugs, etc are known for suppressing the sexual drive. Looks like that whatever you changed restored it to “normal” levels.
As what to do about it. I’d recommend keeping it to fantasies, toys and masturbation until you find a safe way to practice it with other people. People can be weird about sex making up all sorts of rules and procedures about what you’re supposed/allowed to do. The only valid rule is that everyone has to be participating willingly and enthusiastically.