I’m 26F, and these last two years my body has gone crazy… Is this normal? And how can I control this? Would regular masturbation help or something? It really makes me go crazy romantically speaking too 😅 like having weird fantasies and attractions for random people. So I would really like to control this better. I first noticed a big change after I stopped smoking… I’ve also been exercising a lot so maybe it’s that?

  • Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    3 months ago

    sexual fantasies and high sex drive are perfectly fine as long as you keep it to consenting parties, no shame in experiencing these things

    i imagine regular masturbation would help somewhat but its up to you and how much time you have tbh

    the thing to always remember is that these fantasies and this sex drive dont mean anything about your morality, and dwelling on it will likely make you worry more.

    • Techhh@lemmy.worldOP
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      3 months ago

      I’m not worried, it’s just that I didn’t expect this… I was actually a bit unprepared. Early 20s I had no sex drive at all compared to now 😳and compared to my peers too, it thought they were animals haha

      • bobs_monkey@lemm.ee
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        3 months ago

        I mean, there’s no shame in exploring your sexuality and getting laid, just be safe and healthy about it. Just keep in mind men have feelings too. Self satisfaction can help satiate, but there’s no substitute for the real thing.