Reading comments in different communities, I noticed that users hardly leave smilies. Why is that?

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  • Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech
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    11 months ago

    For me emoticons were something that started when all of the boomers came to Facebook. Floods and floods of useless emojis left and right. So now I feel weird using them, like I’m cheapening the platform while also acting like the people that ruined Facebook for me

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      11 months ago

      Are emojis considered emoticons? Call me old but I think this is an emoticon ;-) and this is an emoji 😉

      • ambiance@beehaw.org
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        11 months ago

        Agreed! Although the little image things on message boards like phpBB, ProBoards and Invision were also emoticons, even though they were basically early onset emojis

    • Slow@lemmy.todayOP
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      11 months ago

      I have a negative attitude to standard emoticons built into Android and iOS. They don’t look good, they’re too many.

      I’m interested to know who uses emoticons depicting, for example, player rewind icons or rectangular shapes. Are there people who use these emoticons at least once a year?

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          11 months ago

          Hmm… Then wouldn’t it be logical on the part of mobile OS developers to make the extended set of emoticons hidden by default and enabled through system settings? Or make an extended set of smileys as an app that can be installed through the app directory?

          • thanks_shakey_snake@lemmy.ca
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            11 months ago

            Maybe! The MacOS emoji picker actually does this: You can choose which categories to include or omit, and set favorites… And not all of them are enabled by default. No reason phone keyboards couldn’t do the same thing. MacOS calls most of what we’d consider “emojis” to be one category though, lol… So that wouldn’t actually solve the problem. But it’s possible.

            Installing them like an app wouldn’t really be a thing though-- Emojis are part of Unicode, which means they’re essentially text characters. You wouldn’t want to omit those from the system entirely, because if they appear in text, you still want to be able to render them. Kind of like… You might not need (or want) a convenient way to write an “é,” but it’d be annoying if somebody wrote “the appetizers were good, but the entrée was just okay” and you saw “entr�e” because you didn’t have the right app installed.

            Personally, I’d rather have access to everything and just use search to find the one I want, but it might be nice to have the option to omit categories that you aren’t interested in.

  • cerement@slrpnk.net
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    11 months ago

    second a few other comments, a lot of people conflating emoticons and emojis

    • emoticon: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
    • emoji: 🤷
    • emoticon: =>^.^<=
    • emoji: 🐱
    • Empricorn@feddit.nl
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      11 months ago

      Very true. Also, I believe you forgot to escape the 2nd ^ symbol? I think it should look like this:

      =>\^.\^<=
      

      =>^.^<=

    • moitoi@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      11 months ago

      It’s understandable. Back in the old old days, these 😱 were often called emoticons. The reason was that the chat software that people used to automatically replaced ;-) by 😉. The menu was the same and the name of this menu was emoticon.

      One of the most famous example of this is MSN Messenger.

      People keep the habit to call them emoticons.

  • AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Personally I feel like if I need to use one, then I’ve done a poor job of writing.

    I guess the other component is that I write a lot at work (I’m an engineering manager) and emoticons aren’t really appropriate for that kind of communication, so I’m not in the habit of using them.

  • Lvxferre@lemmy.ml
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    11 months ago

    My hypothesis: Lemmy has an older userbase, and in general older people feel less of a need to express their emotions. They’re busier discussing the topic than highlighting their attitude towards it.

    Perhaps cultural reinforcement plays a role, too. As emoticons and emojis are less used, they feel more out of place, so people who’d use them elsewhere avoid them here.

    • PilferJynx@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      I only use emoticons to clarify an emotional message. On forums, I’m more interested in sharing and discussing ideas and opinions. Emoticon spam makes me sick with worthless cringe.

    • Maestro@kbin.social
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      11 months ago

      My 80 old father-in-law spams emoticons like he’s a 15 year old girl. Cringe-worthy and hillarious at the same time 😂

    • Fizz@lemmy.nz
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      11 months ago

      I use emojis only because my phone suggests them at the end of sentences 🙃

  • pimeys@lemmy.nauk.io
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    I’m coming from the old ages of internet where we didn’t have them. I’m fine with them, but I’m too old to use them comfortably.

    It’s fine. Use them if you like, but I don’t really see the value in systems such as Discord where you pay money to have special emojis and so on…

    • YMS@kbin.social
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      11 months ago

      Scott E. Fahlman proposed using :-) and :-( to mark jokes and not-jokes respectively in internet posts in 1982, and they (and lots of variations) have been in use ever since. IBM’s Codepage 437 character set (as used by the original PC) had two dedicated smiley characters even before that.
      There was no golden age of the internet where there were no emoticons.

    • TimLovesTech (AuDHD)(he/him)@badatbeing.social
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      11 months ago

      Old internet days you went to a site to make them for you and you copy pasted them into some stupid AOL/ICQ chat , and then later on for me irc. Now they are part of a lot of clients UI. (⌐■_■)

    • SorteKanin@feddit.dk
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      11 months ago

      I’m coming from the old ages of internet where we didn’t have them.

      You’re talking about emojis. OP is talking about emoticons. They are not the same. Emoji = 🙂, emoticon = :)

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    Well, personally, I grew up with more primitive emoticons and usually just eschew including smiles entirely. I’ll use them with friends but I tend to communicate more formally in public forums.

  • TORFdot0@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Emojis really don’t have a use outside of shitpost communities. I very rarely will use them here on Lemmy

  • Sanctus@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Its just the group we have. I use basic ones sometimes. But I also come from a time before emoji existed.

        • Corroded@leminal.space
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          11 months ago

          I still test out messaging apps by using this fella

          (_/)

          (0.0)

          (> <)

          I’d be interested to see which ones you have on that file

          Edit: Lemmy apparently doesn’t like the rabbit’s formatting

          • cerement@slrpnk.net
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            11 months ago

            either escape the backslash or embed the whole thing in a code block

            (\_/)
            (0.0)
            (> &lt;)
            

            and Markdown insists on breaking anything with a less-than character (considering the preview shows correctly but then you hit “Save”) …

          • Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca
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            11 months ago

            You can escape formatting by adding a backslash in front.

            this is a quote

            > this is an escaped quote

          • BougieBirdie@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            11 months ago

            The rabbit’s left ear looks like it should be a backslash (\_/)

            Backslash is an escape character used in formatting, so if you want to actually display a backslash you need to use two (\\_/)

          • Sanctus@lemmy.world
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            11 months ago

            Oh the file itself turned out to be garbage because it was a text file. So it was terrible at preserving spacing and all that. I can upload it when I get home if you want nostalgia more than usability lol I probably used it for a month out of stubbornness before just finding a website that hosts emoticons.