Basically the sister question of that other post here…

I tried to add my frustration there, but i think it’s suited here more. I’m a terrible candidate with no money, properties and almost zero social skills and that will never change. Even my own family thinks I don’t act like a human being. No wonder I’m eternally alone.

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    3 months ago

    Abusive + overprotective mother growing up

    Now I hardly have any feelings, let alone romantic ones, I associate the words “I love you” with danger, I actively avoid hugs because I never had that growing up… I could go on

    Then she has the audacity to ask when she’s getting grandkids

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      Same, I barely feel anything, I’m a rock, a statue. Attractive or even average women want charismatic people or at least someone that can offer anything interesting to their lives. I know I’ll never be able to be that type of person.