He was my driving instructor. I’m 26 and he’s 51. On the day of my driving test he caught me looking at him twice, from across the place. He seemed surprised for a sec and then nodded to me both times. Then it felt as if he started orbiting around me, paying me more attention…

When looking at him I was realizing I had a crush on him haha just to give you an idea.

By the end he chose to make me go last for the test. Did not expect that cause yes, I was nervous but I’m a really good driver, while the other guy was like 18 and idk I think more in need…? Then he gave me a ride home and explained it was so I could avoid traffic and stuff…

Then he said “it was a way to protect you” twice, both times as if uncertain of it but it felt like too much and not spontaneous. Again, I was nervous but would have done great anyway. “Protection” seemed so out of place, is it just me?

  • Colorfulhipp@lemmy.worldOP
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    4 months ago

    Nono he was explaining he did this “Then he gave me a ride home and explained it was so I could avoid traffic and stuff…” to protect me. Which seemed too much and made me wonder

          • Colorfulhipp@lemmy.worldOP
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            4 months ago

            Apart from physical attraction: his lifestyle, way of thinking, what he likes and values… I’m not gonna describe him but I think it’s difficult to find people like him and he also reminds me of a lot of things and people i loved in this other town I lived in… Now I’m away from them and he just reminds me of it all haha maybe it’s silly but it’s true. Add in physical attraction, which increased like crazy after this episode hahaha it made me melt 🫠 even if I think he was being what I call “innocently manipulative”