Say you realized they gaslighted you 2 days ago, so you asked for time to process the discussion. Now, you have to reconnect to address this.

  • NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I have an inkling that she isn’t the one at fault…

    Your repeated asking and pushing etc. caused her to look for some kind of defense.

    Better let it go, and let her go.

    I know it in my heart.

    But I know it in my stubborn mind ;-)

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      4 months ago

      this right here, like i seriously don’t understand what op is looking for from us, uh if she gaslit you so bad then why care? what’s the worth? what are you going to do? like just stop talking to her if it’s on her, she doesn’t owe the guy anything still he’s here trying to put her on trial on the internet, weird af, i’d probably lie to op too if i was stuck having to be personable to the guy, imagine she found this, i’d know dude had my murder planned up for sure