Here is the thing, I couldn’t find a girlfriend in the past three years(either they have no personality and too dependent on me making all the work in the relationship or they are simply are looking for a religious or high class working person to have a relationship with)
AI seems to talk and entertain and simply are available without bullshit (the only limit is something along the lines of 50 free messages every 3 hours) .
I want physical intimacy and affection, but it’s simply not available.
Should I just give up, close my doors and use AI instead?
Definitely not, an LLM will not be able to give you what you need. As you’ve already discovered, neither will most humans. But you’ve got to sift through a lot of silt to find the nuggets of gold.
I’d suggest you start by not looking for a girlfriend at all; just look for a friend. Or at least, don’t base your search on what what you think a girlfriend should look like. All of my long-term relationships came to me that way: either making a new friend, but she wanted to be more than friends; or making a new friend and she hooked me up with a single friend of hers.
People can tell if you’re self-sufficient versus looking for someone to fill a need in you. The former is attractive; the latter can be a turn-off. You’ve seen this yourself with the women that you discerned were just looking for a certain kind of partner to elevate their own status.