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Cake day: December 31st, 2023

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  • A T4T relationship might be better, that way you both (probably) understand each other better than you and the average Grindr person would. Or maybe even just having safe queer friends to talk to.

    From my experience, it was very hard to have good friendships or romantic relationships while I hated myself, so anything to bootstrap your self worth is probably good. If Grindr is giving you a quick dopamine hit but leaving you feeling worthless as a person, that’s probably a net negative. Also keep in mind that progress is nonlinear; the first 50% of effort will seem to increase your self worth very little, but even a small increase is great because that growth is exponential.











  • They’re enforcing their version of culture, a very white conservative one. “Culture war” doesn’t mean completely unserious, the consequences are very real.

    It is a distraction from the root cause, they have people voting against their own self interest to make minorities suffer rather than demand better working and living conditions. It’s redirected anger wielded for their gains.