Hi! Recently exiled reddit user, here. I’m curious what other alternatives to reddit there are, besides Lemmy, and Raddle, of course. Also, imho, Phuks is a good alternative, there’s no hate-speech (that I’m aware of) and people are pretty respectful. Anyways, let’s hear your suggestions! Thank you!

  • Quetzlcoatl@sh.itjust.works
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    6 months ago

    Never heard of phuks. Went there and immediately the first thing I came across was hate speech. Assuming its not open source?

    • Otter@lemmy.caEnglish
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      6 months ago

      Looks like it’s open source, but very dead

      • Sorting by new gets around 1-3 posts a day, site wide

      • the top post of all time was 6 years ago and it was discussing the shut down of Voat

      So while they might not have recent hate speech, it seems like that’s the community that started there. Sort by top all to see the context

          • Shyfer@ttrpg.network
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            6 months ago

            It definitely isn’t enough to feed the constant content addiction I had with Reddit, but I’ve found that kind of a good thing lol. I’ve started reading books and comics on my phone, getting out of bed faster, working on other projects, etc. It’s like using a less toxic version to wean off, like using vapes or patches to get off cigarettes.

              • Shyfer@ttrpg.network
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                6 months ago

                That’s the one thing, I really want more niche communities. Not sure if we just need more people or community discovery needs to be easier. I’d like to see more with the league of legends community and Meet Your Maker community, and I’m sure other people have niche video games or other small hobby communities they’d like to see take off more.

    • sinewyshadow@lemmy.mlOP
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      6 months ago

      Aw, no! Phuks has fallen to hate speech? I’ll have to investigate this. I investigated, and didn’t find any hate speech. Just some dumb jokes. I’m talking they have posts with the N word right on the front page. So disgusting.

  • OpenStars@startrek.websiteEnglish
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    6 months ago

    There are several closed group options or other closed source ones that aim to be just like Reddit in practice but not exactly it in theory. Ironically the Reddit alternatives sub on Reddit is probably the best place to get such a list 😜.

    I enjoyed Squabbles for a bit - it was described at the time as toxically non-toxic as in very much anti-hate speech, though I don’t know how it’s fared recently. At the end of the day though it’s just one guy’s project, and while he’s no Huffman, still the entire thing turns around him, very unlike the Fediverse that can become anything we want it to be.

    If you do remain on Lemmy, learn which things to block bc that will improve your experience substantially. Just blocking lemmygrad.ml and hexbear.net improved mine 95%, and ironically some people (not me) also block Lemmy.ml. You will come to find what works for you, I am just saying that the experience varies enormously depending on that one factor!

      • OpenStars@startrek.websiteEnglish
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        6 months ago

        Well *I* don’t, thus keep in mind that I may be summarizing here the reasons that others do incorrectly &/or unfairly, but from what I understand people are saying:

        (1) often when people get extremely argumentative (aka bat shit insane crazy trolling) it is from there. Who wants to talk to someone who is rude, condescending, and doesn’t listen in the slightest to your POV before loudly proclaiming how very wrong you are, even while using logical fallacies (such as strawman) as they do so?:-P Counterpoint: that can happen on any sufficiently large instance e.g. lemmy.world too? Though it does seem to happen more often on lemmy.ml for whatever reason.

        (2) it may be relevant (tbh I’m not entirely sure how though?) that it leans fairly hardcore to what many people e.g. in the USA would consider an extreme leftist viewpoint, as in so far to the left that it may even become uncomfortable to someone living in a society that leans more rightwards even if the person in it considers themselves an “extreme leftist” in relation to that center point. Along these lines, are “memes” merely political propaganda that happens to be drawn in a cartoonish form? (Though this is an argument pertaining to merely a community, not an entire instance.)

        • Shyfer@ttrpg.network
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          6 months ago

          For 1) That’s funny because other people have said that about lemmy.world. Lemmy.world and sh.itjustwor.ks were defederated from Beehaw during the Reddit exodus for that very reason.

        • mctoasterson@reddthat.com
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          6 months ago

          Is that the most toxic instance? I got blocked or banned or whatever from hexbear for simply posting a slightly different opinion from whatever the current orthodoxy was there. Do curated echochamber communities really provide any value?

        • 59QRRwD@lemmy.ml
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          6 months ago

          Oh interesting. I picked it from a list as it appeared to be a more privacy-focused instance and blocked all the annoying pseudo political communities. That said, having to pick a random line from the communist manifesto during sign up as a spam account filter should have been my clue. Chalked it up as a quirk of the developers…

          • OpenStars@startrek.websiteEnglish
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            6 months ago

            Meh, to be fair, communism gave us all the likes of Mastodon and Lemmy, whereas capitalism gave us all Twitter/X and Reddit so… it’s not like I’m knocking the politics even, so much as the extremely annoying manner in which those thoughts are handled, sometimes.

            Imagine a Karen who regardless of actual right vs. wrong, thinks they are right, but more importantly just enjoys slamming it into people’s faces. Like, if you really think that you are correct, why work so hard to convince people of that “fact” - you catch more flies with honey than vinegar - and who exactly are you trying to convince bully even?

            Likewise even a factually correct endpoint can be made into part of an incorrect statement if arrived at via a false chain of logical deduction - i.e., even a stopped watch is right twice a day, but that doesn’t mean that you should trust the watch from then on!? A statement that includes a logical fallacy, even if deployed in order to defend a true statement, is still false, even if the underlying fact also happened to be true.

            And if there is anything I am learning from the internet, it is that trolling exists, yet not everyone is a troll, and it improves my mental sanity >95% to block such. I used to be proud of never blocking anyone, ever. I grew up though, in seeing how others refuse to grow.:-D

            You might try an experiment and make an account somewhere, and see how different some posts and their complement of comments look, in terms of which instances you may choose to block, and also which individuals may have blocked your instance in return…

          • Broken@lemmy.ml
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            6 months ago

            Lmao, I’m right there with you. Was looking at privacy type stuff so went to .ml. Thought the communist thing was weird, but hey people are weird, whatever. I guess I’m that naive.

    • Chozo@fedia.io
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      6 months ago

      it was described at the time as toxically non-toxic as in very much anti-hate speech, though I don’t know how it’s fared recently.

      Well, the dev ended up going the “free speech” route and started allowing hateful content to be posted and the community kinda imploded on itself. Haven’t looked back at that site in probably 6 months or so now.

      • OpenStars@startrek.websiteEnglish
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        6 months ago

        Thank you so much for the update. Oh wow what a turn-around. I can only guess he was desperate to grow the site and did whatever he thought would help his profits. I really do enjoy the mode of thinking behind the Fediverse so much more!:-)

  • Otter@lemmy.caEnglish
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    6 months ago

    Personally I would filter and only look at platforms that are open source and Fediverse/ActivityPub compatible. Otherwise it will suffer from similar issues as the other alternatives (centralization, lack of community/momentum, takeovers).

    As long as the platform federates nicely then it really comes down to personal preference. The content and communities can grow independently :)

    The platforms that come to mind for that are Lemmy, Kbin, Mbin, and Sublinks. I’m probably missing some other good ones

  • tanakian@lemmy.sdf.org
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    6 months ago

    let me list two not federated options.

    but both are self hosted.

    • lobsters. one active instance is lobste.rs but i know of https://սարեան.ցանցառներ.հայ

    • if you use gemini protocol, you probably know about it: bubble is a reddit like software. i know about two deployments, the original, by the author is at gemini://bbs.geminispace.org

    users also can have their blog feeds on it.

    • Shyfer@ttrpg.network
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      6 months ago

      I remember hearing about that one as I was leaving Reddit. I was between that and Tildes, but ended up settling on Lemmy and Kbin. Glad to hear they’re still surviving.

  • Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    6 months ago

    MetaFilter. It’s a very old school general interest indexer/forum. It’s been around since 1999, has a lot of well known professionals on it, requires a small fee to make an account, they pay their moderation team a living wage because it is a job, and has recently transitioned to official non-profit organization status.

    Quality links, quality discussion, plus some goofy stuff and random quality art thrown in. Kind of general interest, but because of the format, some posts can have absolutely mind-bending numbers of links and in-depth information. Some users go all out in making insanely in depth posts that end up generating significant discussion. As I said, you have a lot of professionals on there, and unlike say, HackerNews, it’s professionals of all stripes: scientists, programmers, lawyers, federal workers, economists, writers, musicians and so on.

    • maegul (he/they)@lemmy.mlEnglish
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      6 months ago

      just in case anyone here is confused … mbin (and its ancestor kbin, which is still running) work just fine with lemmy as they federate with each other. Upshot being that choosing between mbin/kbin and lemmy as an alternative to reddit is not exclusive … choosing one is choosing both … is choosing the fediverse.

        • maegul (he/they)@lemmy.mlEnglish
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          6 months ago

          Hard to recommend one over the other, especially as I’m not following things closely. mbin is a fork and seems well maintained at the moment while the lead dev and founder of kbin seems to be struggling to keep working on kbin. Things could change though.

          • Aatube@kbin.melroy.org
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            6 months ago

            they also overhauled the threads view filtering, though the all content and new comments highlighting features are still missing

      • Aatube@kbin.melroy.org
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        6 months ago

        *bin also has an advantage of integrating microblog as well, though you can’t change URLs in posts

          • Aatube@kbin.melroy.org
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            6 months ago

            yes, though mbin doesn’t have an all content view, so you’d need to switch to the microblog-only view to see these. kbin has much less development going on but currently has an all content view that combines threads and posts.

        • maegul (he/they)@lemmy.mlEnglish
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          6 months ago

          Yep, completely unique aspect of the platform. Some however do find it too complex or confusing, which I say just reassure anyone that that’s not uncommon if you do.

      • Otter@lemmy.caEnglish
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        6 months ago

        https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misskey

        My understanding is that Misskey is a lot older, from before the Fediverse and ActivityPub was a thing. It’s very popular in Japan, so it might not have as much content from other places.

        Firefish (formerly known as Calckey) is an actively developed fork of Misskey that hopes to add many requested community features.

        So firefish was started because Misskey development slowed (or stopped?), but it has had issues recently

        https://fediversereport.com/an-uncertain-future-for-firefish/

        • can@sh.itjust.works
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          6 months ago

          Together with Firefish developer Namekuji, Panos Damelos have started the Catodon project, a fork of Firefish. In the announcement blog post Catodon dives deeper into what makes the project stand out, noting the community driven aspect of the project. Catodon joins IceShrimp and Sharkey as recent Misskey fork projects that are all gaining popularity as small-scale fediverse servers.

          What a world.

    • GrindingGears@lemmy.ca
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      6 months ago

      I think they mean for the parts of the day where we aren’t all angry dads. You know, bedtime and the such…