A former Central Valley High school teacher’s “predatory actions” stripped a student of his dreams and significantly harmed him and his family after the teacher had sex with the 17-year-old, the student’s mother told a judge Thursday.

McKenna Kindred, 25, will receive no jail time – recommended by the prosecution and defense – after she pleaded guilty Thursday to amended charges of second-degree sexual misconduct with a minor and communication with a minor for immoral purposes, both gross misdemeanors.

Spokane County Superior Court Judge Dean Chuang sentenced Kindred to two years of probation and $700 in fines and fees. She must register as a sex offender for 10 years.

Students came forward in December 2022 to describe the inappropriate relationship between Kindred and her teacher’s assistant.

The teen’s classmates told school officials he was inappropriately messaging Kindred via Instagram and that he was defensive when they questioned him about the relationship, according to court documents. Kindred also reported to administration she was being harassed by someone on social media, accusing her of a sexual relationship with a student that she denied.

The teen’s mother later told law enforcement her son had a sexual relationship with Kindred, that he’d been to her house alone with her and that the two had been sharing explicit photos over Instagram, court records say. Detectives did not find photographs “that appeared overtly sexual in nature,” documents say. There were messages referencing masturbation.

The teenager was interviewed at his home and admitted he’d begun messaging Kindred in June 2022. He told police he visited Kindred’s house and that they had sex. He also admitted to sharing explicit pictures and videos with Kindred, according to court records.

Central Valley School District said last year Kindred had resigned.

The student’s mother told Chuang that Kindred’s actions were an “abuse of power” and that she started to “groom” him when he was 16.

She said her son was unable to finish high school on campus, which affected him socially, emotionally and academically. He also lost some of his youth and missed out on major milestones.

The woman said her son played soccer since he was 18 months old, but Kindred’s criminal actions forced his plans to change.

“A light he used to carry has been dimmed,” she said.

The mother said she agreed to the attorneys’ sentencing recommendations, so the case did not drag out any longer.

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    Is noone else gonna point out the absurdity that if the guy had been 1 year older, legally speaking there would’ve been nothing wrong?

    The problem here is the grooming (which I think it’s worth noting that adults can be victims of as well), the abuse of power dynamics, and particularly in this case the exploitation of another’s inexperience for personal gratification.

    But the article instead focuses on how the kid was “affected” by the teacher’s “criminal actions”, but then essentially just describes the kinds of consequences caused by the social stigma of student-teacher relationships. But this also happens in university, where it also carries negative social consequences, but not legal ones.

    My point is simply that the legal system is a flimsy caricature of morality/ethics, and in articles like these it really shows.

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      1 year older, different jurisdiction, yadayadayada.

      The only person saying the kid was ‘affected’ is his mother. This is clearly a load of crap by people who can’t comprehend that a 17 year old male might actually want to have sex with a 25 year old female and not end up regretting it later.

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      It’s a recurring theme in the US school system. And it seems to be primarily female teachers going after boy students, which makes it noteworthy.

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    So, where are all the feminists that would cancel and rip apart a man if he did this pedo act to an underage girl? Or do they only choose to do activism when it benefits the female? Suddenly it is okay with feminists because the underage boy must have enjoyed older woman. Right?

    This is why I refuse to trust a single word coming out of females and feminism. Equality is NOT the same as feminism. And it never will be, because we as organisms are all tribalists at some level, no matter how much we pretend to progress.

    Fuck all of you that look the other way when it comes to men’s rights or male abuse. All of you. Man, woman, trans, every one of you. Sincerely, fuck you. Why? Because REDACTED, and a feminist out of all people told me I should not have opened up as an adult. I cannot socialise normally to this day.

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    Mmmh. White woman privilege is realer than a mf. Let “McKenna Kindred” be a 250lb. Black man from Chi-town; Kindred would’ve got turned into red and gray paint splatters against their bedroom wall by a fuckin SWAT team at unholy-o’clock in the morning. But y’know, because she’s the complexion of Emmett Till’s killer, it’s all sweet as poundcake.

    Bullshit assed country, stg. Death to the settler empire.

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    Wait. So did the 17 year old not want it or what is happening here?

    Why are the comments here calling for rape or 20 years?

    • Just to make absolutely clear: im not endorsing, neither talking down sex with minors
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      In most US jurisdictions, an adult having unforced (for lack of a better word) sex with a minor is classified as “statutory rape” due to minors being legally incapable of consenting.

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        Yes, which is why it’s more fruitful to say willing or unwilling. You people have misused the word so much it has lost meaning. Congratulations.

        It’s dumb how someone can be ‘raped’ in one jurisdiction, but not raped in another.

        People want to conflate rape with having sex with 17 year olds because it elicits shock value in those who don’t know any better.

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    The US needs to use AI for sentencing ranges, it seems just so extreme and there is two tiers of justice based.off the judge and location. There needs to be mandatory minimums for rape, no matter what. System is broke.

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      I get the frustration, but AI has shown again and again that it repeats and magnifies human biases rather than blunting them. Non-AI algorithms designed by humans tend to make things worse even than that, like California’s “three strikes” law.

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      There always needs to be a human making the calls. I never want the robots to make life and death decisions, and sentencing is just that. It definitely seems like they got this one wrong, but AI is not the answer.

      The criminal justice system is completely fucked right now. There are multiple tiers of justice, and it is by no means blind. But large language models (we don’t have anything remotely like an AI that could do consistently what you want) are a warped and biased reflection of humanity, and would only intensify and perpetuate the systemic injustice.

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      The fact you think AI should be doing anything is proof you haven’t been paying attention.

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    The entire legal system is set up to protect the average creep, and maintains legitimacy by throwing the most overt abusers under the bus.

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    Good. Women having sex with teenage males is not the same as men having sex with teenage females.

    It just isn’t, although this simple fact will upset a lot of neurotic people.

    Notice how the only people complaining are his mom and classmates? Something tells me he’s not going to regret this later like what happens with most females who have sex as teenagers, but I guess we’ll have to wait and see.

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      While the boy admitted to sharing photos, it also said they didn’t find any so there may have been a lack of evidence for that.

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    The word rape doesn’t show up in that entire article. Must be some kind of mistake. I wonder why that would happen?

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          Gender and racial judicial bias are real issues in the western world but continue to bury your head in the sand and pretend that the judicial system is blind. Time and time again the criminal justice system in north America continues to show an unwillingness to hold white women to account for anything. If they do face consequences the sentence levied upon them is typically noticeable less than that which is given to a man in similar circumstances. With the greatest discrepancy being between white women (who are treated with the softest of kid gloves) and Black males (I say males because even Black male juveniles are treated more harshly than white women).

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            Well, that’s much better answer than previous one and thanks for that. The previous one seemed pretty much like obligatory “That’s racist!” shout just for the sake of feeling oppressed.

            (Un)fortunately I can’t probably see the big picture of different parts of the world as I live in a country where the biggest racial minority is around 0,5%… White women are treated equally as they should here, because well, they are such a huge majority. And I truly believe nobody would even dare to think about racial bias.

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              It was a “that’s racist” shout because the legal system in north America is horrendously racist. It’s not just in the court room, even before matters get to court, the manner in which white women are treated by prosecutors (who offer sweet deals as in this case), police (who are less likely to apprehend and if done they do tentatively/reluctantly) has a quite visibly racist component to anyone who knows how the system treats “others”. Context matters - some people got it, apparently others did/do not.

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            It’s almost as if the system expects a greater level of maturity and accountability from Black male juveniles than it does adult white women.

            What a great way of putting it.

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      Because it wasn’t rape.

      Rape is forced sex. He was willing.

      You’re just trying to conflate the legal definition of rape with “having sex with someone against their will.” They are not the same and never will be.

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      Because that is not the name of the crime in Washington. It says sexual misconduct, which is the name of the crime.

      https://app.leg.wa.gov/WAC/default.aspx?cite=504-26-221

      Washington has a surprisingly modern discussion of consent in that law, but conspicuously missing is anything about abuse of a position of power, which is typically used in these exact cases (teacher-student, prison guard-inmate, police-detainee, etc.). Honestly if that’s not part of the law in WA I’m not sure how they figure it’s illegal under this law.

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      I wonder why that would happen?

      Because this is an article about a specific case that didn’t involve a charge of rape I imagine?

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          Statutory rape is not the same as having sex with someone against their will.

          We should be saying “willing” or “unwilling” to get this point across without seeming like we’re trying to manipulate others.

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        that didn’t involve a charge of rape

        Y’know, I was going to ask if you really believed that minors can consent to sexual activity(because they can’t; plooking a minor is LITERALLY SUPPOSED TO BE FEDERAL STATUTORY RAPE); but your home fed is programming.dev and I should really know better than to ask a techbro that question by now. Like, it is an even 50/50 that if I walk back through your history, I’m gonna find some shady bullshit about what you think about the age of consent with how techbros are these days.

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          And there are a creepy amount of sites dedicated to figuring out the law in each area. You would think simply avoiding having sex with people under 18 would be a pretty easy task but I feel there may be a scary amount of people that are actively seeking that out.