• squid_slime@lemm.ee
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    22 days ago

    Besides the “meme” being cringe inducing garbage at a similar level to ‘live, laugh, love’. Just seems like copium or self aggrandising.

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      22 days ago

      Most home wreckers are self aggrandizing hypocritical narcissists, so… yeah.

    • airmail@lemmy.worldOP
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      22 days ago

      I guess she has to cope somehow since it has not even been a year since they got married and they already had a huge fight. She complained about his kids staying over at their house (ex wife has them for 2 weeks, then he has them for 2 weeks) cause she hates kids & doing stuff for them; and he got very angry and essentially told her to get the fuck out if she doesn’t like it cause she knew what she was signing up for and to never talk badly about his children again cause they come before her. She truly dreamed that after he divorces he’ll drop his entire family and start a brand new life with her.

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        22 days ago

        Your sister sounds immature. Might help if she did therapy or even a self help book.

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        22 days ago

        Wow, I knew she wouldn’t be the brains of any operation but I didn’t think I’d be siding with the cheating douchefuck so completely. Like, she’s really got those premium blinders on to think all that, damn. Unless he had said he’d leave it all but at that point I don’t believe either of them enough to make any judgement or assumption.

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        22 days ago

        Are people not allowed to have a huge fight until after 1 year in the relationship?

        Fights happen. A relationship that never fights is unrealistic and a problem. This insinuates to others that fighting in the first year is bad or wrong, and that’s just not necessarily true.

        • Rayquetzalcoatl@lemmy.world
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          22 days ago

          I think what OP was pointing out was the severity of the fight, and the way that it has illustrated fundamentally different expectations of this new relationship so soon – not just that there has been a fight within the first year because you’re right, disagreements are normal and usually healthy.

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          22 days ago

          A relationship that never fights is unrealistic and a problem

          I’m not sure how you define “fight.” For me (and probably many others), it conjures an image of violence.

          A lot of people in relationships resolve disagreements through discussion. If a partner were unable to discuss an issue without getting violent (even non-physical violence, like shouting), they wouldn’t remain my partner. Point is, being able to resolve issues in a mature way is a basic requirement for many relationships.

          I know that isn’t everyone’s experience though. I can only imagine how much crap you’ve been through for “relationship fights” to feel so normal. I’m sorry, that has to really suck. :(

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            22 days ago

            In a marriage/committed partnership, I think most people would consider a fight to be an argument with raised voices and some ill feeling. I really don’t think most people consider shouting to be violent. Upsetting, maybe, but violent?

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              22 days ago

              Fair enough. But do most people really think it’s healthy to shout at their partners when they disagree over something? I’m kind of shocked at how many people are voting as if that’s a normal expectation in a relationship.

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    22 days ago

    Wow, your sister is a real homewrecking piece of shit. She also doesn’t understand that if he’ll cheat on his ex with you, he’ll cheat on you with someone new.

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          22 days ago

          The word itself is actually a pretty good slang to describe the common act that human beings do known as coping, which can also paired with the funny meme of someone actually huffing a substance called copium like it was a potent drug. Let’s be real, some people have the bliners on so thick with denial and do mental gymnastics so hard to protect themselves from unpleasant ideas that may damage their ego or mindset that they may as well be high on something fierce. I’m usually the one criticizing new unnecessary words I think are stupid but I like this one better than most others.

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            22 days ago

            Notice how toward the beginning of your comment you said in a non-cringey way? I prefer that.

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    22 days ago

    Pretty sure memes like that are always intended to be taken as satire. They used to be a quite popular format.

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      22 days ago

      I mean it doesn’t seem like his sister thinks it’s satire. Poes law etc

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    22 days ago

    Is everyone too distracted by the cringe to be infuriated at the punctuation? Wtf is happening with those quotation marks?

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        22 days ago

        I read it 3 times trying to figure out where the quote was supposed to be before I gave up and came to the comments.

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      22 days ago

      Welcome to the 1950s. They used quotes to make it clear it was the pictured character saying that. They also standardized using quotes to identify the motto on businesses and trucks. The SomeECards meme format is a caricature of that.

      Bill’s Burgers “We serve pleasure”

      Jack’s towing “Reliable hookers”

      Manny’s Milk “We’ll deliver that white cream that puts a smile on your wife’s face”

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        22 days ago

        The use of a pretend quote is one thing, but what is the middle quotation mark doing?

        Manny’s Milk “We’ll deliver that white cream” that puts a smile on your wife’s face"

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    22 days ago

    What horrible people. Cheaters deserve the worst in this world, fucking traitors.

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    22 days ago

    Ugh, this entire concept makes me want to wash my eyeballs, both the cheating, the homewrecking, the justifying it after the fact, and the gloating too.