• RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 hours ago

    Don’t let selection bias put you off. These stories are filtered by “worst date” and then you’ll basically only read the top ten over the top versions of those.

    I guess most dates are around “fine” to “meh” and not traumatizing.

      • tehbilly@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        3 hours ago

        You don’t go into it looking to find a loneliness cure, you go into it looking to make a new friend. Maybe that friend can be more, but maybe not. The worst case scenario is the same as not trying, a decent outcome is a new friend (which can lead to expanding your pool of datable people!), and maybe you find a partner along the way.

        I’ve been married for about a decade now, what I miss most about the dating scene is all the new friends I’d make and experiences I’d have.