Basically the sister question of that other post here…

I tried to add my frustration there, but i think it’s suited here more. I’m a terrible candidate with no money, properties and almost zero social skills and that will never change. Even my own family thinks I don’t act like a human being. No wonder I’m eternally alone.

  • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    I don’t trust people, because of being let down by 100% of the people I ever trusted. It always seems so tempting to date someone, but then you find out 2 years later they never STOPPED sleeping with their ex, and now they’re pregnant.

    Or you come to find out after 6 months that the reason she only wanted casual dating, is because you’re the guy on the side.

    Or you find out after 4 years of living together that she only saw you as a way to pay bills, and never really loved you.

    So now when I see a pretty girl on the street I just sigh, and wonder what bullshit she’d do. Instead of even saying hello.

    I’d LIKE to date, but hell if I’m even going to be putting my heart and soul into it again. And if you’re not doing that, it’s not real love. And if its not real love, whats the point?

    • Nobody@feddit.orgOPEnglish
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      3 months ago

      This whole game of love is a fucking joke, is basically rigged to fuck up people like us. Is honestly sad.